Girlfriend often moody?

My girlfriend is often moody for no reason. When we see each other everything is always (!) Fine. She always seems happy and everything seems to be great. She says I love you, compliments me, wants to cuddle, smooch, sex… But it doesn't work on WhatsApp. It often seems like I'm annoying you and everything I'm doing is wrong. Also important here: it's not always like that… If, for example, she is not so open-minded or writes with fewer emojis, if she is watching something on Netflix or something on the side, that doesn't make me think. But if I feel there's no reason, then I don't feel comfortable with it.

And I asked her if something was bothering her in our relationship, whereupon she said plainly "No, I don't mind anything". Did you believe that and it is good. At the moment, your PMS is showing (i.e. You are about to have your period), which does not make the whole thing any better. And still an exam phase at school. So double burdens… Yesterday she surprised me by being completely unmotivated while writing. She said she just had no motivation at all. Didn't resent her writing style then. Especially since everything was good and she wasn't really mad at me.

She said there are always moments when she just has absolutely no desire for people. And I shouldn't refer to what she says during her period either. And even if she treats me poop because of a lack of desire for people on WhatsApp, I can't and shouldn't apply that to myself, because it's not up to me. As I said, that only applies to WhatsApp and when we see each other everything is always mega. Only when she treats me stupidly, even if it's not my fault, do I always worry about her love.

I'm afraid that she doesn't love me anymore, that she doesn't care, that I just annoy her. She apologized for it and said I shouldn't refer to myself and so on. But I mean, when I'm in a bad mood, I try not to let it go on her and pretend everything is mega. Have been together for almost 6 months and haven't had a fight, but rather phases where you were briefly annoyed about something. And she is better off in summer than in winter… I'm just hoping for that a little.

And yes I love her and she love me too. We have already talked a bit about the future, so not with children now. But graduation in more than a year, a little vacation together and so on.

What is your opinion? Can i believe her What can I do?

She's already explaining it. And yes, these are quite realistic reasons. If she takes the pill, this also makes sure that she is moody. And she could just be depressed right now or just have a bad phase.

No, she doesn't take it. And yes, okay, the bad phase is of course possible. But thank you.

She sure loves you. She told you everything was fine. If she shows you that she is happy when you meet, that's good. Maybe she doesn't like to write like that. Or she has a phase in which she is not in a good mood. There's and is completely normal. It is more difficult to show how important you are to someone through writing. There are often misunderstandings…

Yes, of course that's true. And yes, she shows me that 😌Thank you

I've seen a lot of your questions relate to your friend's moods before or during her menstruation.

Yes, that's normal, I can totally understand your girlfriend's moods, it has nothing to do with you. It's best not to push yourself…

Of course, I don't know why she doesn't like to write on WhatsApp. Just write her less and meet her more often.

She may have a small psychological deficit if it happens a lot that she doesn't feel like getting in touch with people, including you. But then you must not associate that with yourself and your relationship.

From your text one can already deduce that she loves you.

How old are you then?

Yes, this is my first relationship and I'm therefore also "inexperienced" when it comes to a woman's whims. And thanks in advance for the tips ✌️ and yes, I don't know why it is sometimes the case with the lack of desire for people, but that was always the case, she said. But nice that you see it that way and I actually know that it is so too…

We're both almost 17

It will be fine!

If you want to stay with her, you should learn to cope with the fact that she doesn't hold back with her whims. You have to get along with people as they are, they usually don't change.

Of course, you can bring up the topic so that she becomes more aware of your own behavior. But really change… Shouldn't be necessary…

I also think… Thank you✌️

Yep, I think we want that. And yes, I also try to get used to it and it always works better… Only sometimes I take small steps back 🤷♂️. And I addressed the subject of her moods, at least in connection with her period, and she just wanted to try to pay attention a little. And no, I don't want to change her either, because I fell in love with the girl who has these quirks… It doesn't seem to have bothered me 😌

Well, the moods don't just happen then, but of course much more… And yeah, I try to pull back quickly and just let them go… And yes, thanks for the tip with the pharmacy 😌