Girlfriend lies to me and thinks i don't notice?

My best friend sneaked out at 2am to meet her boyfriend. Usually she always tells me everything because we have known each other for almost 9 years now and we always say everything to each other, but she has kept it from me and says she is at home and is watching netflix. But on the snapchat card I see exactly that she is on the Rhine where she always goes with her boyfriend (she often sneaks out and therefore I know she is there with her boyfriend) and she says to me that she is ice cold at home and looks netflix I just don't understand it somehow thinks I'm stupid or something?!

and to test i sent her a snap of mine as always (no matter how ugly we're or no matter where we're we always take snaps and send us and she always sends a snap back of her but now she just sends a black picture and she never really does that otherwise, and for me it is a sign that she is really out with her boyfriend

what do you think what should I do now or why do you think she kept it from me and lied to me?

Are you with her If I would confront them with it, and go away.

Oh, you don't have to immediately take negative. Maybe she didn't want you to worry and didn't tell you that she was going out now.

No that's not she is such a guy that she doesn't really care if i'm worried so she really doesn't care

No of course not she has a boyfriend and I have a "crush" it is only a matter of always telling each other and she is lying to me now and hiding it from me

Then unfortunately it seems to me that she has forgotten you out of sheer joy and excitement

Just ask them. Maybe she has a reason or something important is going on.

Just talk. Talking is the solution to many problems with patience.

Mhm maybe, yes thanks for your answer and that you understood it correctly

Oh, thank you nothing

It's just none of your business! You don't have to know everything!

When I read that, I'm glad that I never got involved in such friendships - and never will either.

She probably lied to you because she is annoyed and wants to protect her privacy.

I think you do not mean it badly and only good but I think it was a mistake to write this because you would have to know our friendship first and one thing I have omitted though, it constantly lies to me and when I talk to you about it distracts you from the topic or does not write back until we finally argue

It sounds to me as if she is feeling narrowed by this extremely close friendship. It seems to take her breath away.

You develop your personalities in different directions, which is completely normal. Just as adolescents cut off and distance themselves from their parents in the course of their development, friendships that have existed since childhood are often broken off.

Withdraw a little and give the friendship a chance.