Would you like to have an imaginary boyfriend / girlfriend?

Mo
17

I'm watching the Ano Hana series on Netflix and I asked myself that.

Somehow I would like to have a girlfriend or boyfriend that only I can see… Or who comes from my imagination or is a ghost or whatever.

But I'm also completely stupid. How do you see it?

And yes… It is clear that there would be a couple of problems with me

al

No, I think that's quite normal. I would love to have someone I could really share all of my problems and such, so an imaginary friend wouldn't be that bad!

Ta

I had an invisible friend when I was in kindergarten. He was really nice, but then we moved and he couldn't come with us.

Hu

Ok these are sad vibes

Mo

Oh no.
It's a shame, I hope you meet again sometime!

si

It will be a reunion…

Qu

I'm watching Umbrella Academy and a character named Klaus can also see dead people. His reactions would roughly match mine.

In the long run I would probably be booming so that I finally have my peace.

So no. As long as I can't consciously decide when and whom to see, I happily do without this power.

Ta

Since that was obviously my subconscious, I can't remember being particularly sad.

Lu

I think it's called a tulpa. There's a very good website for this

Ab

So I really don't want one that comes from my imagination. That would indicate a problem with my brain. How exactly can you control it? Afterwards I don't have any peace anymore because he's with me all the time.

Someone only you can see… I think it's not quite as beautiful as in the movies. A guy like that will feel really lonely and will cling to you like a burr. With a ghost, I would somehow see it that way.

You can't do anything with these friends. They can't physically interact with the world. All you can do with them is talk and at some point you have probably told yourself everything.

But I think you could be tempted if your friend doesn't come from the imagination. Just imagine an invisible person would make friends with you. You have a good chance of winning at poker and other games. (In short, you can make a lot of money with your ghost)

I prefer to do without all of that. ^^

Mo

OHAAA! O_O
Do you think something like this really works.

no

Sorry but there are no invisible people or beings! If it does (which nobody knows 100%) I can't make friends with them! As well as? You're basically talking to yourself! How should an invisible being answer? How do you know if it might not have bad intentions in the long run? I would be very careful if something like that exists and you notice it!

Lu

I don't know. I read through everything there, but never wanted to try it because I don't need it

Mo

I'm a little scared, but I would like someone who can know my bad secrets
I definitely thank you for the link!

Lu

There are also websites where you can chat with people anonymously

Ta

No idea. I was 4. At that age you don't worry about that. It was okay with me. I liked him. He was just there, playing, driving, etc.

no

Oh, I actually understand that!

Mo

Yep, here e.g.