Well, I'm 16 with a boy (16) friends, I met at his house party (was taken by a friend).
Had written but before that some weeks.
At the party we also had a lot of physical contact, because he had tickled me and I was on it at some point halfway on it and we lay around for quite a while (sounds kinda weird).
He had recently also screened a snap of mine, where I looked pretty finished and I thought, if he could not have prettier pictures of me instead of those, where I look like. And then he said if I could not send him pictures of me (normal facial pictures) and then he said that I had the beautiful smile full.
He also just writes me every day and keeps asking me if we want to meet.
For one thing, he says that I'm a real dream woman, he gives me nicknames, always wants to pick me up with his motorcycle or give me things.
I had met with him today, we were really so arm in arm and have Netflix watched and talked. Then I have so n light in my room, that looks like colorful stars that are turning in circles and then we looked at each other while we were cuddling.
He had his arm around me and pulled me all the time and smiled at me.
He also said that he really wants to get to know my parents properly. And he had also spoken directly from a second meeting.
Also paid a little attention to body signs and he had quite a heart palpitations and his pupils were dilated.
It was honestly very nice and I felt really good.
The problem is that I've been told that he flirts with every girl and wants to meet constantly. My girlfriend meant that to me as well, but he said that he had not done anything with this girl for 3 years.
As nice as it is to hear compliments from a boy, that does not mean this boy is serious. And even if a boy is serious = wants a steady relationship, that does not mean that he is also capable of relationship.
At that age, relationship ability would be the exception rather than the rule. Most boys in this age are happy to conquer and try them out until they lose interest.
Take time to get to know each other and do not be fooled by beautiful words. Pay more attention to caring, honesty, respect, gratitude.Fleiss… Character, if you want to know if you fit together if necessary.
A person is authentic if his attitude to the words, the words fit the deeds. The lower the authenticity is - the better must be the art of acting. But you can only find out if you take enough time to get to know each other without leaving it early on.
He searches for your closeness according to what you write. Of course, it is almost impossible to tell whether he is looking for a relationship, even if the intention to meet your parents already speaks for a little more interest and commitment.
You do not necessarily have to take seriously what you have heard of others about his flirtation behavior, because what was three years ago when he was just 13 years old really does not count anymore at this age.
The question is: do you want something from him? Do you like him? Do you like him? If so, you can control how close you get to him and how fast or slow that should be.
Fidgeting has not hurt a boy yet. If he's really a runner, he's going to lose patience. But if he sticks to you, that could be something.
If he is already trying to have sex, then he only plays with you. It's a good sign that he cuddled me without trying (?) More.
I would try it with him and wait with sex he seems to be serious so far.
So that's a problem, that he feels like getting at every girl. This was told to me by my female friends who know him for several years
I never trust rumors, but rather test myself. Just with a little caution. Just because he did that to others, he does not have to do it with you. Hald would just wait with sex.
