What / How can I go on (Love)?

A good friend (Crush) and I have known each other for about 6 months (actually, almost a year at the time, we only saw each other). We met often and did something together, e.g. Going out to eat, going to the cinema, riding a motorcycle, cooking together and watching Netflix.

I only got feelings for her over time, the problem: She has a boyfriend. But we still talked about it and it turned out that I'm very important to her, also interested in me but her feelings don't know exactly whether she wants it. But she knows that I want to fight for her love and she thinks it's "very sweet". She said even if she didn't have a boyfriend, it would be different because then she can't cheat on anyone. So she means she would do more with me but stop the feelings ned know if she really wants to be with me.

Lately we met for a whole day and when I accompanied her to the train station (she wore her mask all the time because of the cold) when we wanted to say goodbye, I took off her mask and kissed her on the cheek. She then grinned so lightly and tried not to laugh. Vlt. I should have kissed her normally, but I didn't want to rush it.

But she also told me that since she often does something with her friends, she doesn't want to (as long as I don't accept that we're just good friends), that I'm there because she doesn't want it to be "strange". But she also said that one day something can happen when the feelings are ready. It just oscillates between good friendship and relationship.

I also think to myself, how am I supposed to influence their feelings and fight for their love if I don't get the opportunity. I mean, on the other hand, we almost always do something alone.

However, I have to think of her 24/7 and it keeps getting worse, I have to dream about her every night and imagine cuddling with her (she only wants to cuddle when I accept the friendship)

I always fluctuate between "let it stay and forget it" and "don't give up! Just because it gets difficult" and mostly I'm also one who is fighting for his goals.

Right now I don't know if I should keep fighting for her love or just give it up. (Own. I don't want to give up but I have no other choice) she may then see what she has lost. Since she always says "she doesn't want to lose me, I really really matter to her"

Definitely keep fighting, but remember that it sucks to be betrayed, so speak again when it gets a little closer to love.

You don't even have to "fight" if you're not even in a relationship.

You can either seduce her and then there will be more of it (but that sucks because she has a boyfriend) or you can become her best friend (but you can establish personal contact with her). I don't even understand why she would cuddle with dur if you were just her buddy, when she did have a boyfriend?

Why shouldn't I be able to fight for her love. Especially when you are in a relationship you shouldn't have to fight like that, otherwise that would mean that the Bzh isn't going well.

I don't even understand why she would cuddle with dur if you were just her buddy, when she did have a boyfriend?

It's a class relationship, which means that they don't see each other very often other than at school. Maybe she lacks physical contact. That's why I'm also considering whether I should let it be, because then I get physical contact with her

If it comes to something we'll talk about it anyway

You don't seem to have a problem talking to her about anything. It's good. Just talk to her about anything. Your worries, your feelings, everything.

And definitely stay tuned.

Stay away

She has a boyfriend.

I know someone who has already broken up with his friend because someone else has grown in love. Seen live.

I know some there too

Thank you, I'll do my best

She has a boyfriend.

That is no reason. Have you ever had a wife with your 50?

How long do you want to run after her?

Until it becomes something or I give up (which hopefully won't happen)

Seen objectively

No, certainly not I know it's hard for you.

She has a boyfriend!

Jeckten rarely works well in an existing district.

Make yourself aware if it works what does that tell you?

Whenever she gets to know someone else she does the same to you.

I also find your behavior not quite so correct and moral.

She is not true to the heart and not completely loyal to her boyfriend and you can be cheated spiritually and emotionally.

Your behavior clearly signals.

It does not have a calm core.

And no self-worth. Otherwise you wouldn't have this situation at all.

Look closely

She takes advantage of you and gives you hope all the time.

Do you know your worth.

Sorry for my direct words.

All the best for you, lots of strength 🙏🧝♀️🌈🔮🕉☯️

I've already had the experience and failed.

Was 3 years behind.

So don't wait too long. Show your pride too. You don't live 300 years.

My answer to your question was meant to be kind and not condescending❤

No, I'm not married. I'm currently single.

I think you should carry on like it was with her on other days. The days with her were fun and fun, weren't they? Then don't stop!

I would then also support that… BUT… He shouldn't be sad if he loses in the end. When the love gets bigger and bigger and the hopes get bigger and bigger and in the end the woman decides against the questioner.

I'll treat him and keep my fingers crossed for him, but I want to raise awareness.

The heartache could end up being enormous.

I just wanted to open his eyes.

I used to be so naive too.

Yes, I won't take too much time anyway, next time I'll kiss her properly and see how she reacts. Because somehow I feel like she's disappointed that it was only cheek

I understand you anyway, and somehow nice that you allow me and I know how big the heartache can be, so I also hope that it doesn't have to come to that

🙂👍

She has a boyfriend!

so what, he also meets up with his girlfriends because he gets on better with them than with friends

Whenever she gets to know someone else she does the same to you.

That's something else. Then you have to make sure that she doesn't feel better with anyone else

She is not true to the heart and not completely loyal to her boyfriend and you can be cheated spiritually and emotionally.

It's a class relationship, which means that they rarely see each other except at school, and he almost only meets with other friends, so she does something with other friends every now and then. But alone she only does something with me

I'll treat you to it, because you're really burning for her.

My failure was from 2013 to 2015.

And last year at work I also approached and met a girl / young woman. She also told me that she has a boyfriend. Before that I gave her my WhatsApp. So the sympathy was there, but still she never answered.

You can read my story in my questions. Love in the workplace.

All the best for you and

TOI🍀, TOI🍀, TOI🍀

Thanks, I'll do that. I think / believe or can well imagine that it is easier to fight for love at a young age than at a later age

You're really burning for her.

Yes, I've also noticed, I've never had anything like that, that's why I won't give up anytime soon. I've heard from some girls and classmates that girls want to be conquered

Anything can be possible.

All life is a quiz. And we're just the candidates (Hape Kerkeling🎙🎶😂🤣😅)

❤Yes then do that❤

I think you are very blinded and you are both very young.

Yes we're 17 so what? And what do you mean blinded?