Meet again, no fancy?

Zi
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Hayy my last question was about the same topic.

I met him today, we went for a walk and watched netflix. But I don't know how to find it all. Because yes I mean it was a nice afternoon, we also talked a lot, even if there were always a few silent minutes in between… But when we looked at netflix on his bed, he was looking for physical contact all the time. I didn't really go into that because I just didn't feel so comfortable at the time. He also asked several times if we wanted to cover up but always said "no" because I just didn't feel like it.

He then asked me if we would like to do something again, and yes, as I'm, I just said "yes" because if I had said no, he would have asked more precisely why not, but I had no special reason I knew at the time just not how I find everything. His mother drove me home and he even gave me roses.

earlier he asked me via WhatsApp if I had time on Sunday to come to me. But I said that I don't have time because I'm doing something with a friend that's really true. But the really bigger problem is that my parents are not so convinced when boys come to me or when friends generally come. And apart from the fact that I really don't know how to find all of this.

To be honest, I felt more comfortable with his family (his mother, sister and her boyfriend) than with himself. Unfortunately, I can't assess whether he really feels something for me or just wants one thing.

What do you all mean? Should I meet him again for maybe a second chance? Or how can I make it clear to him that I don't want to meet again?

ar

It was similar to me, too, she wanted to meet and after a short time I realized that I didn't want to have anything to do with this person. Then she wrote me if we want to meet again. I was honest and wrote that I no longer feel like it

Gu

You sound very much like you have no real interest in him.

I would tell him that too. Either personally or via WhatsApp.

You can just write "hey, we met a few times now. You're really nice, but somehow that doesn't suit me and I'm not interested in meeting you again. Please don't be too angry with me. I still wish you all the best! "

Gu

It sounds like you don't really care about him.

If you can calm your conscience, you can get involved in the meeting, but I don't think that makes much sense.

Pa

It looks to me that you actually don't want a friend (yet). Tell him if it is!

But he fights. With roses, hey!

Zi

Yes, that can be good, moreover I have never had a boyfriend and so I think that everything just happened too quickly.

Pa

Can be very good. Explain it to him; that it's just too early for you. Maybe he understands.