I'm a bit perplexed at the moment… I haven't seen my ex boyfriend since the separation about 3-4 years now, neither have we written nor met. Now we have been writing again for a few weeks and he would like to meet with me. It is a difficult topic for me, since I wonder if I should ever meet my ex-boyfriend again, since he is actually part of my past? He wants to eat pizza with me and watch Netflix. What if it ends goofy? Does it make any sense to let your ex back into his life. No matter whether you start a friendship or an affair, I'm very unsure. I'm afraid to make the wrong decision.
Hope you can help me. And nice Sunday.
"He wants to eat pizza with me and watch Netflix." That sounds pretty clear to me. Think good about it!
Yes I know! That sounds like it… I just don't know. I also don't know how to react to it…
Go inside you Only you can decide for yourself. Something is possible with something like that. Another insolvency. You should be prepared for this when you get involved.
A lot can change in 3-4 years. Sometimes the reasons for separation even disappear.
His invitation is pretty clear. So now you have to consider whether you are interested in building a close bond with him again or not.
Thank you if it were that easy. No matter how much I think about it, I can't get any further… I didn't answer because I don't know what to answer… It's very clear what he's up to. But thanks. Lg
I think he wants to land with you again.
Yes I know! And that's exactly what is so difficult… As much as I think about it, I just can't get any further. Doesn't an ex belong to the past?
Everyone has to find out for themselves which way is the right one. Watching Netflix can already be interpreted as a synonym for Sec. If you want to get involved with him again (depends on the reason for the separation), then meet you. If you don't want to, reduce the contact and don't get involved in a friendship. This does not work in the long run.
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Doesn't have to be. There are enough couples who come back together after years and have a nice partnership. My grandfather has been with his first childhood friend since he was separated from my grandmother and has been for over 10 years.
With pleasure. Of course it's not easy at all if you're in there yourself. Wish you a good decision!
Assuming I allow it and I want to get in touch with him again, how should I react to this "Netflix and Pizza Eating" thing. I mean we haven't met yet and then he wants everything or nothing right away?
I would actually be careful there. I would actually rather meet on neutral ground to find out what he wants at all. You also can't be embarrassed because, for example, he wants more than you are willing to give, etc.
A warmed-up soup no longer tastes good.
Do you want to go through the old camels again and again and again?
