Just jealousy?

So my dog is 3 years old and I have had him since he was 4 months old. In the beginning he was ONLY with me, so he ran after me everywhere and was only with me, he didn't even look at the others. Slowly he was enjoying himself with everyone and so my aunt and my mother were with me until he was 1 year old. He still sleeps with me today and he is really happy when he sees me and kisses me a lot and is really nice to me, but since that started with corona (I know that has nothing to do with corona) he is more with my mother He still beats me but for example earlier so a few months ago he was always with me when I looked netflix into my laptop but now he's with my mother in the evening (not when sleeping) when she comes home he's almost only with her and that for 5/6 months.

And I'm 14 and I used to have big jealousy problems, it was gone, but now when he is with my mother for a while, I'm so straight that I think he doesn't love me anymore and prefers her.

Although he is my dog and I do everything for him I give him food and always go out with him I give him enough attention and so much love and he also loves me I know that he loves micj but sometimes I doubt it was just because he once is briefly with my mother.

And now does not say dogs do not attach themselves to children. There are so many dogs that bond strongly with children and my dog and I have a strong bond, but sometimes I doubt it.

Is it just jealousy or is that something?

A psychologist might not be the worst to help you.

Sounds to me like you're a very careful person and you don't want the dog to turn away from you. Take a look at how much time you spend with that. Dog compared to your mother and think about how it looks from the dog's perspective!

It is good that your dog has another caregiver in the same household.

Imagine you have to go to hospital or to a cure for a few weeks. Then it is important that your dog has confidence in your mother.

At the moment you are still going to school, so you have a lot of time for the dog. But later, when you are studying or doing an apprenticeship, your time window for him shrinks.

It is then also important that he feels comfortable with your mother and does not always have long after you. It's just happy when you come home and can take time for him.

Every being has various points of reference in his life and feels love and respect for those concerned. That is why you can't claim any being for yourself. It always needs space for other people, etc. So that it can feel comfortable, safe and secure all round.

Your text is very exhausting to read. It would be nice if you pay attention to the punctuation.

You can't force affection and respect. It is a dog and not a human. Partner who is "unfaithful" to you or "cheats".

Just enjoy the time you spend with your dog and allow both your dog and your family to interact with each other.

You're a bit jealous and you'd better be happy that your dog is comfortable with your mother too.

He belongs to your family and he is also happy when he is with you and you are not always around him all day, then it's nice that he also has a nice relationship with others.

So now my aunt is here and when she is there he's only with her. Is it because he hasn't seen her in a long time or does he just not love me anymore?

So now my aunt is here and when she is there he's only with her. Is it because he hasn't seen her in a long time or does he just not love me anymore?

Thanks for the star. No, he sure loves you the most. But isn't it the case that if, for example, you haven't seen your grandma for a long time and she comes to visit, you also like to spend time with her.

Or another visit that is personable… But that doesn't mean that you prefer her to your mom.