You can see more information in my last question.
Haven't seen her in two years.
She is 16 years old and I'm 17.
Why do I want to write to you? I still think about her today. And somehow my gut tells me I should write to you.
What could also be important, I wrote her a message a few months ago, but I was just too pushy. Or felt like a novel, and that was counterproductive. Was in the time when I was not feeling so well mentally. But then I don't have to address that.
I just regret that I used to be so shy and not at all self-confident when I was in a class with her, she always came to me, wanted to laugh with me, on a day where we had such a soccer cup, although she praised me we just screwed up. But I never really realized that because I only had problems with myself during that time. And that's exactly what I regret.
How can I best write to you? My goal is to get her number, and maybe meet again. But this requires a little plan of how I go about it. What I write?
Just a hey how are you "fine and you" etc is not an option. Just boring.
You make a lot of requests, or I hope you write back, I miss you, etc. That after two years just comes across as strange.
Apologize for the fact that I came over pushy, it probably crashes over.
I'm really worried, but don't know what to write.
It doesn't have to be hey it's me. Be something creative.
She likes soccer and Netflix. I do not know. And it's pretty straightforward, honesty is important to her.
I just want to try my luck, maybe something will come of it, or maybe not. Life goes on in the end.
Tips how and what can I write? Sure I shouldn't pretend, but it's just not that easy.
Just write "Hey… I missed you" girls like that
No way.
Why not?
Listen to your gut feeling. The tips you get here are of relatively little value because every person would subjectively do it differently. Listen to yourself and whom you are afraid of failing you will never act. Again and again new questions arise. You think the situation needs to be planned. In the end, however, you never act. So surrender to your feelings and let yourself go.
PS: Most people don't think too much about something like that. Your goal is to get into conversation. Then say hi and ask something or something like that, it doesn't really matter what it is, the main thing is that you talk.
You should probably address the psychological issue, because it is confusing for the opposite.
It will be like that. Everyone is different, somehow they put me down. But I'll just write to her now.
