I would like to write to a girl whom I haven't seen for 2 years or have had no contact with. I write to her because I have a gut feeling that I should just write to her. Or I think of her too.
Now I wrote to her a few months ago, but I was just too pushy or wrote a novel which was just stupid. And I just want to try, my goal is to get closer again, or to establish contact first, etc. That would simply be my wish. Or I would do anything for it.
Sure, it can be that I get a basket, or she doesn't answer me at all, whoever has goals must also expect defeats.
Nevertheless I very much hope that it works: /
She is now 16 years old and I'm 17 years old, she likes football, netflix, and is a direct person. Or honesty is important to her.
Now I ask myself all the time
"What should I write" directly with I miss you etc. Arriving just comes across as weird. Just with hey how are you doing the same…
How would it be with?
Hey, I just remembered the past, it was a really fun time. I wanted to ask how you are doing. "
But is the text so appropriate? I used to talk to her, etc. But was really very shy. Which is why I don't know if that's so fitting… And I'm not only thinking about her today.
Is it so hard? Or do I make it so difficult to write a text.
Can you do. Ultimately, the way you write to her isn't going to change much about her answer.
I do not know.
You can't just think about it for so long with every message.
Btw can write how it turned out.
I think that fits so she will answer anyway what she thinks about it will not change the message as you write it much
Thank you, sure I know. Only the first message is somehow always the most difficult.
That's right, I think it's best to just write the way I would. As long as I don't write a novel, and in the end it will show.
I wish you success.
I'm not a love expert, but what you've already written was good. But you also wrote that she is an honest person. If I were in your place I would start slowly or not spam fully every day, not that you are obsessed with her. E.g. A small text that you can write to her when you are ready. "Hey! How are you and your family? Do you know I would like to contact you. (Of course only if you want to)
Thank you, but this only who you want shows this uncertainty again.
I think you should leave out the part that you remembered her because that sounds weird too. Because it goes in the direction of missing and you don't want that, because she doesn't think that's so cute. In addition, if you arrive now with miss, she might think that you are only writing to her to pass the time, because you wrote to her some time ago and then no longer at all. And then suddenly after a while you come back and write that you miss her. She could also feel a little pissed off and as a second choice, because she doesn't know if you wanted something from other girls in the meantime.
And the question is also that you had no contact in the 2 years and whether a WhatsApp message could not come across as cringe. If you met by chance and you wrote afterwards, that would be something completely different.
But of course the whole thing is your decision, that's just my perspective.
It's via instagram, I don't have your number anymore.
Then that's even stranger in my opinion…
Well, I don't have any other options.
Then do it like this.
Don't have high hopes, even a little scared of it. But well, nothing brings me to wait any longer. Or search for the perfect text.
