I had a date with a girl the day before yesterday. It went relatively well, she often looked me in the eye when she spoke. We were walking and she really wanted to stay with me until I was picked up instead of going home on the way back (my pickup location was a detour for her). However, she did not want to be kissed, she always turned her head a little when I looked into her eyes longer. I also suggested that she come over to see me on Netflix next week. Her reaction was that she turned her head and said nothing, it gave a strange feeling. When I was home, I asked her if she had arrived home safely (with a heart), which she replied without a heart. The last three days she only replied after 20-24 hours. She said that she wanted to meet again and that she wouldn't have time next week, but it would work next week. But suddenly she only writes 1 day later… In the last 3 days I have received 3 messages. What could that be? She has enough time, I know that.
You have to give her time first. Perhaps she is very shy and does not yet know how to deal with it. But what she thinks only she knows, why you should talk to her about it after a while.
Maybe she's not sure about you and thinks you only want one thing. Maybe she'll let you fidget and hope you fight for her to look! Are you serious about her?
My girlfriend and I don't write 24/7 either. When I ask them, the answer comes between 1min and 2 days. I think it's "normal" and also emojis like hearts etc. We don't really send ourselves often, because why should you hide words behind an emoji? Maybe she'd rather express herself in letters what she wants and what she needs. How old are you if I may ask?
It went relatively well, she looked me in the eye a lot when she was talking
You usually do that. It simply means that she was brought up well.
However, she did not want to be kissed, she always turned her head a little when I looked into her eyes longer.
You don't find it a bit intrusive?
which she replied without a heart
Why do you have to paste everything with emojis?
only answered after 20-24 hours.
Isn't it bad?
She has enough time, I know that.
Almost 18 and 16
Some women also think it's more interesting if they let the man down. And maybe it just takes some time. I would also feel pressured (if it doesn't fit really well) if you wanted to kiss me on the first date. But if she was really interested (I say that because I'm like that. It does not mean that she is like that) then she would try to get to know you better. But just listen to your gut feeling and wait. And if it doesn't fit, there are other girls too.
Yes I plan to, just fear that it will come across too needy
2 days? What kind of relationship is that
What kind of relationship is that? It is a very good one. Because why write when you can just go to the person and ask them or call them e.g.
I don't think that this corona crisis is going to see his girlfriend / boyfriend. In addition, your answer is a bit confusing, because you think that you have no contact for 2 days.
Oh ok, then I put it wrong. In the corona circles we answer an hour later or so because we look at the cell phone more often. And yet we make meetings, e.g. Take a bike tour. Of course with a distance of 1.5 meters.
