I'm currently talking to a girl and recently she said some things that made me think if she was vlt at the moment. I wanted to invite her on a "Date".
We had talked for a while, so she asked me if I knew when the Christmas market opens. Whereupon I told her the approximate date and also meant that I would look forward to it and would like to go, whereupon she replied that she was looking forward to it and would like to go there. Did not she talk directly to a date but it still felt like she had asked that question so I asked her for a "date".
Later in the conversation, she also said something that I found a bit confusing. She said that she would like to "chill" with netflix and then order a pizza. This helps vlt. A little more of the context, she had told me that she had never ordered food, so I was a little incredulous. Then she had asked if she wanted to do it alone, whereupon she then said that she would like to do it with friends. I thought that was a bit strange, because I could not really imagine why you should say that, except if you would like to offer the opposite to the Zsm with her.
We both had a date already, but after that I was a bit stupid and asked her if she could imagine more than friendship, which she denied almost 3 weeks ago. However, she still writes me on regularly and I will not shake the feeling that I vlt. But still have a possibility. However, I'm already a bit unsettled, because she gave me three weeks ago more or less a basket.
Najo it could be perhaps that si understood more than friendship ev. Friendship +?
Somehow this does not make sense to me…
Would a date but no relationship, so I do not understand!
I think she was too fast at that time, so she said no. It's quite normal. One wants to get to know each other better. So invite her to the Christmas market and ask her again after several meetings.
As for the chill and netflix concerns: just ask "hey would you like to have a look with me (tag), (movies) netflix and if you want we can do what you like / you like to order food?" then you see their reaction anyway and then you also know what you are and have clarity. I would do it anyway.
