Getting to know you phase. And suddenly is she strange?

Se
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I've had several dates with a great girl. Hours of activity and a great time. She looked really full of fire and flame

We even kissed on the 2nd date and she didn't want the evening to end at all (neither did I)

On the third date, she invited me home. We watched Netflix until 2am and talked about God and the world, cuddled and kissed us. But between the dates I noticed that she wrote less than usual and showed a little less "enthusiasm"

There's not so much coming from her anymore…

What I also find strange is that she still shows up as "recent" online on Tinder and also on the other dating platform, so even though there's apparently "more" between us, she may be looking further. Although she said to me she doesn't understand that she would never parallel data because when it fits she wants to focus on one person. Strange. Got to know us through such a platform

She also tell me she was hurt 2 times very EVIL and she was played false love

Ru

What exactly is your question now? If it got more intense with you, then just ask her why she is more reserved now.

There can be many reasons for this.

Ph

Talk to each other, nobody can tell you why she reacts like that.

By the way, communicating is the only way to understand others better and to get to know each other better

fa

"We even kissed on the 2nd date and she didn't want the evening to end at all (neither did I)"

Sometimes you block when it's 'too perfect' because you're afraid of getting hurt

Fo

It sounds very complicated again - love is often carried through intrigues, lies and false promises.

In your case, of course, can be anything.

See it positively - if she didn't really have a crush on you, at least you had a nice evening.

Se

Yes, she was injured and betrayed 2 times very badly. False love was played to her, she said

su

If a person needs some rest, it doesn't mean they are no longer interested. You must also take care of yourself.

So the best has gone, now comes a phase of calm. She must miss you if it is to go on. Give her some time and don't piss her off and just don't get too clingy. Whether she is still chatting with others is not your business, you can't prevent that anyway. There's still no trust, it is far too early for that. After a certain time (a few days) you can knock again and invite them back. Then you realize whether it should go on for her.

fa

Then she has most likely very big trust problems and is afraid of entering into a relationship

Tip: Don't rush her under any circumstances and when you meet again, let her kiss YOU and not you her

Se

Would never rush or stress her

Se

That's absolutely true. Of course I can't blame her if she continues to write with others, etc. But why does she say when she gets to know someone then she concentrates on them, especially when things are going well

su

Yes, now don't make up a big deal, talk to the girl, if something moves you, share your feelings with her. Be open and without mistrust

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