So the problem is this: I do not know what to do… A good friend wrote to me before Christmas, that I should annoy anyone else and where I wrote them on it, she said just nerve who other how often. That was on the 21st of December and then I have not done anything until today. She also did not want Merry Christmas: / It may also be because I did not give her my Netflix data because her Netflix account was deleted by former friends and also because of her new friend: / We also had something, but luckily nothing came of that. But what should I do now? Back also did not write, so I also blocked her because I'm mad and she did not even apologize.
I thank you in advance.
You are 20 years old.
I'll just leave it that way now.
If you want to get in touch with her again, you should unblock her first. Then you either write her a little more on New Year's Eve, or you write that her messages hurt her, or you connect both.
If that is really ONLY because of Netfilx ==> That you have not given your girlfriend the data and she has therefore reacted so angry / offended, then I can only tell you…
That she is not a good friend you have.
Good friends behave differently and if they think they are getting insulted liverwurst, then YOU can do more than write / talk / talk ==> DO NOTHING if there's NO reaction from YOUR side.
I think you should not justify yourself.
You behaved normally, your girlfriend is the big problem and if she does not even write you back or wishes Merry Christmas, then there's nothing to do but wait for her to agree to write to you alone because she may. Calmed down again.
Therefore, I can only give you the tip ==> wait and hope that something comes from her.
However, if NOTHING comes from her, then please do NOT run after.
Such people are just not worth it for my eyes.
Happy New Year 2019!
On the one hand, you do not want to write with a woman all the time and you do not want to be constantly available to her, it just shows her how desperate you are and how much you need her, and there's nothing a woman can do more than a guy emotionally dependent on her.
On the other hand, you also do not want to put up with irreverent behavior on the part of women. If a woman becomes overblown with me, as she is eg. In your case, I basically show her that I do not like such behavior and she's losing me. Not only by what I SAGE but especially by what I TU! It's critical to communicate clear boundaries to women because if you do not respect yourself, how do you want women to do it?
Do you want to apply? Then make yourself RARE! Let grass grow over the whole and do not contact you anymore. Meet up with other women, meet with friends or do whatever you like, but the main thing is that you just do not report to her for a while now. Note: The control of a relationship is always the one who needs it the least!
Happy New Year.
Thank you and also a happy new year. Well, we've known each other for almost 2 years now and she was friends with me even before the Netflix account.
I just think this has something to do with her new boyfriend, and honestly, I do not feel like it anymore.
Besides, she should apologize.
I'm glad that it helps you. Just get to know more women next to her and just do not get in touch with her anymore. You do not even believe how fast you forget her once you've met 10 other women who not only look better but also fit you better than you. You do not want to have people in your life who do not appreciate what they have about you!
