I'm w and 16 years old.
I've had a group recently, so to speak. I know the two boys from elementary school and they are now going to the same school with me. I know my best friend from elementary school and have been friends for 10 years and I met the other girl through my best friend.
so anyway my best friend often has a storm free so we all always go to her. I and the one boy slept in the same bed I didn't think bad either because I have known him for years. I long on his chest because I'm a person I love to cuddle.
after a long time everyone was quiet, the first I fell asleep, but he almost didn't. He started stroking me and so I turned around he started massaging my bottom and figure me afterwards we had dry sex.
It was somehow not uncomfortable for us, we even called and laughed afterwards but nobody knows that except he and I.
then he was with me one day we talked a few hours later we wanted to watch Netflix "in the middle of the film he started kissing me and so we were only in underwear he found me again and I brought him a run licked around and stuff.
then we slept with my best friend again I was with my pop to him he then played around with me massaging my cherries and so then he got his tools out and tried to put them in with me I prevented it because I still remain jf then he would go to the bathroom and then fall asleep.
now he keeps sending me pictures of couples or sexual things
at the beginning i thought that was nice for the first time but now i feel kind of bad i don't know why.
should i feel bad?
No, you don't need to feel bad. But tell him how far you want to go and why and that he shouldn't send you such pictures. Provide him with the choice of either accepting the boundaries that you have drawn or leaving it entirely and trolling back into the "sidekick".
Maybe it's just a misunderstanding?
Yes, I've already thought thank you
What's dry sex please?
and no, there's no reason to feel bad at all, everything is nice and normal.
So hey first ^^
I'm also 16 but male, so maybe I have a very good perspective and can still understand you.
I personally think that you allow him quite a bit. If you enjoy it, you don't need to worry, but if you don't like it at some point (and the time is probably now when you're feeling bad), be sure to tell him straight in the face (or write to him) that in detail)
Sure that surprises you a little and feels a little like love bombing. You liked it first and the whole situation manipulates your mind, although it may be uncomfortable deep down inside.
If you two stop doing something like that in the future, I might consider switching groups again (or at least you shouldn't be around). I can't judge how reasonable he usually behaves.
LG and I hope I could help you a little
You don't have to feel bad (yet), but you should make clear announcements as soon as possible. Otherwise he doesn't really know what is going on and can only guess puzzles.
Yes thank you but i would be very reluctant to change my group i think i will really end it but am also afraid to hurt him or something
You make quasi-sex-like movements without using the genital organs. So clothes can be e.g. Start. You practically "caress" yourself hip to hip ^^
Aha thanks ^^
You shouldn't be afraid. In the first place, you shouldn't worry about how he'll feel afterwards, but that you are happy.
Show him that it was a nice experience for you (and him) too. It's like a little "trial phase" before the first time, if you can call it that.
If he is reasonable, he will understand you and respect your decision. If he reacts differently than you would like, in the worst case you can talk to your friends about all of this
Back then, I had to research that first. Then I also thought "What is not already there ^^": D
Well, with your behavior (cuddling, allowing sexual touches, etc.) you raised a lot of expectations in him. It is very strange for a boy / man if you allow and enjoy so much, but refuse more.
Be honest with yourself. Why do you want to remain a virgin? What do you expect from it? Do you think you have to meet any expectations?
It is quite normal to gain experience at your age - the main thing, of course, that contraception is ensured and only that which is ok for both happens.
I do not want to disappoint my parents and fam and do not want to be described in my city as h… I have a very good reputation
