Girlfriend annoys me?

Am
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I have 2 best friends who both go to class with me. But me and my "better" best friend have been separated since homeschooling and so on. The other friend is also a bit annoying and takes advantage of me for certain things. For example, to watch netflix because she doesn't have one herself or because of my cell phone because she has a ban on her own. And she came to me today and just wanted to play something I didn't want to play and then she complained that we always play what I want. But the game she wanted to play has been played for more than 5 days in a row and it's such a fantasy game. And I just don't like games like that. Once when she was back with me she wanted to know my cell phone code and just gambled on it and when I talk to someone on the phone, she says that I'm addicted to cell phones. And that's not all, but I don't want to write so much now because otherwise it will be too long. And when I want to go to my other best friend, she freaks out and says everything my best friend can't and so on.

So in a nutshell: my second best friend annoys me sometimes and I want to get in touch with my first friend again.

P.S.: I don't want any comments about avoiding her. She'll tell someone about it and then I can sit around again and listen to her lies.

tr

That sounds really stupid, but if you no longer want to be friends with her, then you can't pretend anything. But you don't want that and that's why I advise you to talk to her and say what bothers you. If it doesn't change then I would really think about whether this is a good friendship at all…

Am

Your answer is very helpful, but I've already told her that many times and I've had a violent argument with her and no matter what I did, she didn't leave me alone. Other ideas? If not, it's not that bad.

Ja

I would talk to her, you ask why she is doing this.
maybe it's a fake girlfriend too, then you really need to distance yourself from her.

tr

I'm just thinking about it… It's a very toxic relationship and I know it's very difficult to get out of such friendships. It's best to go to the other friend and tell her about your problems. Then you could try together to find a good solution. And really try not to be friends with the 2nd anymore. She mustn't treat you so mean