First to me: I'm 18, female and a few days ago I broke up with my boyfriend, with whom I was together for 6 years. My best friend and my best friend are a couple and my ex is one of his closest colleagues. In any case, lately I've wanted to distract myself and then invited my best friend to just watch Netflix or go for a walk, as usual. After a while he tried to kiss me out of nowhere. I could still evade, but I was just shocked because for me he is the most sincere person I know and generally not a guy for cheating or anything else, I have known him for far too long for that, I thought. The whole thing was also very uncomfortable for him and then he left. That was yesterday. Since then I haven't told anyone about it and I don't even know how to behave in general. Should I write to him? I don't know. If I told my best friend I would lose him. Maybe I would lose her if she didn't believe me, which is not unlikely. If I don't say anything, I'll lose it if it comes out. If that came out, he'd lose a very good friend (my ex) and my best friend, I wouldn't wish him that. He was always like a brother to me, I never thought of more. I'm totally confused and feel bad. No matter what I choose, I end up losing at least one important person
Would against so that you keep the girlfriend if you do. Since he basically cheated on her
I'd rather lose the boy since he's a good friend of your ex too. Maybe he's "influenced" by your former boyfriend. I don't know how he felt.
Plus, your best friend is the victim here.
Talk to him about it and put pressure on him. Either he tells the story or you do it.
So by that I mean that you should stick to your best friend and tell her the truth. If she really is your best friend, she will believe you
How do you mean that "influences"?
