I've been with my girlfriend (both 16) for almost 4 months. Actually everything is going well and whenever we see each other everything is nice and she compliments me and tells me how important I'm to her.
But there are moments when she just makes me feel not important to her. There are moments when Netflix prefers a meeting, for example, or when she prefers to read or watch Netflix instead of talking to me on the phone. Or when she's invited somewhere, I rarely get a message from her in between, but when I do something with her, she answers other friends directly.
But I think we're in a really good relationship. I can't understand why she often gives me the feeling that everything else is more important. Yes, she needs a lot of time for herself and everything is well and good… But I really don't often ask her if we want to make a phone call, but when she says yes, usually only persuade with a bit or something.
I should tell her that right?
I should tell her that right?
If it is important to you and it burdens you then yes.
You have to work on this feeling. Why exactly do you mind what bothers you? Can't you keep yourself busy when she's about to watch Netflix? And how about you? Do you never cancel a meeting or meet up with your own friends?
I have the impression that she's playing with you a little. If that's true, you should tell her not to play with your time, please. Time is life and therefore precious.
