Girlfriend can't plan what to do?

I have a girlfriend (no parties, just friendship), she's completely lost.

She writes to me, for example, "Hey can you get me butts? 🥺🥺😃"

I write "Jo I do"

I'll get her a box and ask her when she'll come pick it up.

She says "Ka when you have time", to which I answer "Tomorrow?" You "let's see"

The next day I ask her "What time are you coming?" She: "Don't know if I can"

And at the end of the day she was sitting in bed watching Netflix because she didn't know if she could.

And that has happened several times in different situations.

In short: it is unable to plan.

Can you change that somehow or how can you deal with it?

Let them plan, otherwise you won't do anything.

Don't get her cigarettes or indulge in inaccuracies.

tell her to tell you what to do when

As an "educational measure", I wouldn't give her any more cigarette butts for the time being… And also stop doing other favors until she has learned to respect other people's time management.

Don't make their problem yours.

I know people like that and if they don't really appeal to me and it's more like a look, I pretend I don't have an appointment and do what I want. If the person answers, I say whether I have time or not.

I wouldn't get her any more, because then you don't have to wait for her and she won't come after all. So the next time I would just say sorry, you won't come back anyway and since you can't plan, you'd better get it yourself.

Or you say she has to come and if not you won't get anything for her, that was the last time, but she would definitely ask that it's not okay.

Ask her how she would react if you did the same thing with her. Tell her you don't like this.