Girlfriend prefers netflix and would rather have some rest?

I really love my girlfriend (both 16) more than anything and she loves me too… And whenever we see each other it's more than nice and I think everyone knows why he really loves the other…

There's only one thing I don't understand completely… I often have the feeling that other things are even more important to you. Netflix in particular is extremely extreme. To make this clearer, I'll give you a few examples:

1. (has already met me): I wrote to her that I would spontaneously want to see her. Then she replied with yes then come over. But when I asked a question and asked her if that was okay with her, she briefly wrote the following: actually want to rest and I'm in my series anyway. → I don't want to tell her that you are not allowed to watch Netflix or anything, but I think that as a friend, whom she says she loves about everything, should be a bit higher in her priorities. If this happened for the first time then it would be ok, but I keep getting canceled because of Netflix. And always nice when she doesn't want to "just want me to rest" or something…

2. Also Netflix: She asked me if I still have plans today, I said no… Then I asked and you, her answer also no… A few minutes later I asked her if she wanted to make a phone call… Then she said she would rather jz watch netflix 🤷♂️

Honestly, I don't get it… I keep getting canceled, or "oh, I was up yesterday because of netflix so I'll be late" or something. I feel like I'm really not ahead of Netflix in their priorities. So I'm the one who likes to take a break and would rather do something with my girlfriend than watch netflix and that is the thanks… Writing always a bit when she looks but what should I do with it… For me it is a given evening 🤷♂️

What should I do? What tips? Justified trouble?

She tries all the time to let you know that you are no longer important to her. But you don't seem to understand and that's why she keeps banging your head against the wall now. As sorry as I'm for you, your relationship is over. Nevertheless I wish you a Merry Christmas!

I got the most beautiful letter in the world for Christmas and when we see each other everything is more than good… I don't think she's no longer interested

Your anger is justified! Talk to her. Keep calm about this. You need to assess the situation now. Has it only been for a few weeks or has been for months. If it's just a short time, she may be in trouble. Talk to them about it and offer help. If this has been the case for a long time, you have to work on it together. Just sit down and talk to each other. Maybe you will watch too.

She's a capricious girl who only does what suits her. The "rest" because of my eyes is only pushed forward. If you want to put up with these whims any longer, that's your business.

I would confront her and speak to her plainly.

Yes, I would like to have… But I'm not allowed today 🤷♂️

Yes, that is right…

Then maybe a different time. Maybe you're going on a New Year's Eve date.

But thank you

Yeah no we do something like that too… So watch something zsm but not this series

If my girlfriend would rather watch Netflix than do something with me, my relationship would have ended long ago. She says something like that to me once, but not a second or third time. But if you accept that it's only up to her nose, then keep going and don't get angry about every rebuff. You can then continue to play the break clown. I would be too good to do that.

On the one hand, I understand your anger, on the other hand, I think it's understandable that she sometimes needs time for herself and prefers to be alone. Try to explain to her that you get the feeling you are not important to her, then she can try to make more effort in this regard and explain to you why that is not her intention (which I assume / hope from).

Then you just don't understand it and have to continue to endure the toxic relationship. You can't give more than helpful advice.

Then find another common component. Do something outside in the fresh air. You relax quickly and talk to each other more. Because there are no distractions. Always worked for my ex, at least. But that's not why we broke up. Do not worry. It is working

I see it the same way!

But I don't want that… I think the relationship is very important to both of us. But yes, I don't want to give myself that too long

😅 it sets priorities. Netflix is more exciting than you.