So for several weeks now I've been at home like most because of Corona. However, for a long time I wanted to talk to my friends on the phone or just watch something at a Netflix party (that's when you can watch something on the computer and write on it). Everyone says "Yes, tomorrow, tomorrow" But today I have already felt the hundredth rejection (of 5 people). I can't be so incredibly busy, can I? Do you think I should ask any further, I feel stupid to ask myself constantly. I don't know how to pass my time, I do all my homework, tidy up, even do sports, but I still have it a lot of time in which I'm only on the cell phone.
Hey You are not alone in this. Many just realize who is really there for you. Sometimes certain friendships are not made to survive crises, try to find out who is really there for you and then stay with these people, you can safely do without all others.
You can't know if they have anything else to do privately… Just ask
I can understand if you don't feel like it every day, but then turn it around. Tell them to let you know if they feel like you would like to be there. If they don't answer forever, that's stupid. I don't know how good you are friends with them. You have to see how they have dealt with you in general. Did that happen before Corona?
Yes, the thing is that if you ever need someone to make a phone call, I'm always available. Then they always call me.
I know that too well. I have very few "friends", live alone and have no partner. Those with whom I at least thought to be friends have not contacted me for weeks on their own (I also suggested online game sessions at the beginning). So I can agree with @actsandlive: you only realize who you seem to mean what. Just try to keep yourself busy with new things, call your family or whoever you have. But to constantly deal with those who never show initiative by themselves is exhausting and not uplifting. So turn to those who pay the same attention to you, that does something.
Are they just as accessible for you when you need them? (You have to weigh up whether it is also important) If they are not really there for you when you need them, then you should do the same with them. Maybe they'll notice something. Back then my mother told me "like you me, so i tell you"
If they call you again, ask them why they have time now and not when you were supposed to. You will hear what's going on and act accordingly.
Too bad, but unfortunately you have to have this experience
