Is House Arrest Legal?

Dear good question community,

3 months ago I hardly had any friends and spent almost every day sitting in my room and gaming, watching Netflix and YouTube, simply not doing anything with other people because I was alone from the outside world every day " delimited "and therefore hardly had any friends. Result: I was banned from gambling for 2 weeks and therefore looked for friends outside and established contact with a lot of people again. Now my parents think that I was naughty to them and have been "house arrested" for 5 days. It's really strange, because I've never had house arrest as a punishment in my life, probably because I just sat around at home every day anyway. What I don't understand: My parents always wanted me to go out earlier and not just sit around in there alone, then I go out with friends and now they think they'll give me house arrest again. Problem: I wanted to go out with my friends on each of these 5 days (we're also on vacation at the moment) and on one of these days on a "date" with a girl. Now I can cancel all friends and the girl for the third time. Why the third time? Well, I've already canceled it twice because my parents spontaneously said you were only outside with friends for the last few days, today you're doing something with us. What do i do with them? To play board games. I hate board games. I hate it. And always sit at the table with 0 buck and can be yelled at, why I don't feel like it. BECAUSE I WANT TO DO WHAT I WANT TO DO WITH MY FRIENDS! But that's cheeky again, the friends who have never drank or smoked are not doing me any good, I should rather stay at home for another week. I don't understand what my parents' goal is now. I asked them nicely if it didn't make more sense to ban me from gambling or to give me the cleaning of the car as a punishment, but they said nope, they don't see it that way. When asked why they see it that way and explain my problem with the friends and the girl, they mean, yes, it's your own fault and we don't have to explain to you why we see it that way. We're your parents and you have to accept that.

Why do parents tick like that?

What is their goal now? You're just shoveling out an old problem!

How can I "persuade" you if necessary?

And is house arrest even legal in this form? → It is currently being discussed anyway whether this whole thing with the quarantine does not violate human rights…

I also find it very mysterious. They act just as logically as my parents did back then.

Tip: You must have a nice granny, aunt or something similar. Who can have a word with your parents. You should at least be allowed to maintain your social life.

Above all, I lose contact with the people in my group again if they meet 4 times without me…

Regarding house arrest, whether parents are allowed to do so or not:
https://www.stuttgarter-zeitung.de/inhalt.ist-hausarrest-erlaubt-mhsd.eff5e4cd-5437-41d1-bc4c-5bfdf7499fd5.html

Otherwise: If you teens are tackled a little harder these days, then you think it's unfair and blabla…
And what is then going around outside, you can see that as the end result if you approach the matter brutally

Just. Social contacts should be cultivated. You also want to have many memories together.

Yes, I don't want to lose my friends either, I really like them all, but my parents are kind of against it…

If you are under 18 they can give you under house arrest without any problems. But if your parents act so illogically you should call something like the advice on wire etc. There you can talk to someone and that person is obliged to keep it all secret and give you a type to maybe get out of this bad situation. Just try to talk to your parents about it and if that doesn't work, that's pretty stupid. After a certain age, some parents tend to see their children more as inferior than children. If none of the options help then I would advise you to buy something like a Rubiks Cube so that you can distract yourself. Parents can suck you pretty deeply, but don't lose hope.

Another little tip: Try to play a board game with them and have fun or buy one that you like more. Maybe then they'll be more relaxed with you.

Thank you!

Sorry

We're your parents and you have to accept that.

That is no explanation for their behavior. Your parents should tell you clearly what the exact reason is.

Personally, I never think house arrest is appropriate.

Call the number against grief - if you have no relatives who can talk to your parents.

On the date: Can't the girl come to your door?

At our front door? We'd actually like to spend time and we agreed to meet on that very evening, because it is storm free and we would finally have our peace…

And an explanation of your behavior, you mean you are the boss and I have to accept that if you say that, after all, it won't be any different later in professional life…

First - later you can see.