I live in a small village and I have only 2 friends with whom I meet very rarely (we only do boring things and they are only on the phone). I used to have more girlfriends, but they all formed a group of friends with others and left me and the 2 others alone. I'm always alone at home eating and watching Netflix (that's why I'm so fat).
But how should I find friends? If I would sign up in any club, I would somehow have to be friends with those that we make an appointment or something. I'm really breaking it because I'm getting depressed and mentally unstable (you just have to look at my other questions then you could see what I mean). I just do not have anyone, everyone left me. I'm only in my room for 24/7 … What should I do? Has anyone of you ever went through something like that and can give me some tips? How can I find friends, or what can I do without friends except for a walk?
Ps: I'm slowly losing touch with reality because I only listen subliminally to hope that my life changes and I look at series and then always hope that my life will be like that. That's funny somehow
pps: I'm female and 15
You have just found a new friend. Namely me.
Unfortunately, we're not really friends xD I need friends who live near me and with whom I can often meet xD
So, where do you come from? I live in Hesse, near Marburg or Frankenberg. Maybe you can set something up xD
Talk to a few people at school. There are always those who find a nice and to whom you can establish contact. With your old friends you could try to get into the circle of friends by addressing them.
I've already gone through the same thing
Too far away xD
Thank you ^^
No problem ^^
Yes, but I wonder how, because I went to a club and I had to introduce myself but then all went together as a group in a corner and I stood there almost alone
That's associal.
But that will not be the same in all clubs, maybe they were very introverted. If you sign up with something like that, then you can't expect that the practically do the "work", so what I mean is that you have to get involved, that you will be friends. But it is always enough to be friendly and to talk to people as normal.
Either that or you accept my offer.
I try to meet someone in clubs xD
