I keep arguing with my boyfriend (23 busy student) because he is only there on weekends and when we do something we either go to train or watch Netflix and he never takes time for me and when asked why? ' he said, I have no desire to always lie in bed and watch Netflix (neither do I stop, but also not always go to train with him) and now he totally blames me, but what can you always do? We both don't have a car and there isn't really anything to do near us…
He just changed totally, he wasn't like that before. Nothing happens between us when we're lying next to each other in bed because he gives me such a negative feeling and gives me the feeling that he finds me totally unattractive because he doesn't look at me either.
I'm always thinking about what to do then, which is not too expensive either.
You could just go for a walk, go to the cinema, eat, cook together, play board games, meet friends etc. You can also go anywhere by bus, train, train, no car is no excuse.
He may be really stressed, which is why he doesn't think about sex. That definitely has nothing to do with you.
It would be important that he switched off and took a break. A relationship must now also be maintained. It is probably only a phase. But if not, and he does not bother to maintain your relationship, he is probably not the right one, or his love is not enough. You can usually see something like this in "stressful" phases.
In your place I would speak openly to him and pull something back, no longer report and no longer meet. If he comes up to you, that's a good sign.
You can go for a walk, drink cocoa, eat ice cream. There are many cheap options. It shouldn't fail because of that.
Hi, you could go to the swimming pool, for example. Or eating together… But it doesn't really matter what you do, the main thing is that you are together. But if he gives you such a feeling, it is actually not normal…