Am I too sensitive, affectionate or emotionally dependent or is it a matter of course that you can take a day off for your girlfriend?

I'm getting desperate because I don't know if I'm too sensitive, emotionally dependent or crazy.

My friend (21, we don't live together) has been watching a movie with his friends every evening for a while. (not next to each other, there are sites with which you can watch films together, such as netflix party eg).

I have nothing against it, only yesterday I suggested that we could spend a whole day together today. You could meet and walk in the park and in the evening we could watch films (so via netflix party, we don't live together). His answer: no, I watch a film with my friends, just like every evening (meaning that he will immediately watch a film with his friends every evening)

sorry but i would also like to do something with my partner in the evening? A week ago I still had the problem that he gambles with his friends every evening and that I'm airy in the evening and that he doesn't want to do anything with me but only in the afternoon and now it is said that he watches films with his friends every evening.

he keeps saying he doesn't have to justify himself because he watches films in the evening with his friends. I just don't understand why you can't make an exception once, once and what can be done with your girlfriend? If you describe a person as a dream woman, how can you not even take a single evening for her? I would take some time for him every evening if I would do something with my best friend (eg netflix party)? I would be happy if my friend asks me if I want to do a film marathon with him.

maybe that seems childish for some people now, but that's my current situation. It makes me incredibly sick that the person I would always take time for can't do it for me. Or only at noon and late in the evening.

Obviously you are totally unimportant to him. You are not too sensitive, you just notice how important you are to him.

If you want a partner who is important to you and who has time for you, you should consider looking for someone else. With your current one, you are clearly below Netflix.

Yes you take it too personally. This is usually the problem in relationships. The woman takes something as a personal attack that the guy does

Girls you give us too much intelligence… That would imply we think about xD

ok I have now exaggerated it a bit. But the tenor remains. That you personally feel attacked by it is probably not necessary.

he can really love you and still want to hold onto his habits. It is also not a question that he decided against you and his friends. No man asks this question. It's just done. Without thinking.

So try it first so that you suggest something in advance. As I know today you have an appointment, I would like to do the following with you tomorrow or the day after tomorrow.

If he THEN says no and makes no suggestion, then you can worry.

It is sweet that YOU are there for your partner right away, but you should be careful with expectations. If expectation is a cornerstone of a healthy relationship for you, then you need to talk about it. But if it's just a nice to have, you have to accept that other people have different views of a relationship

As your friend, he should take ONLY FOR YOU at least a few evenings a week!

Otherwise you do not seem to be really important to him… A shame…

What is certain is that you have very different ideas about how to maintain a relationship. And they are not compatible with each other.

"No man asks this question. It's just done. Without thinking."

Wow. What a great generalization. This is hostile to men and is not true.

And I think that's an assy way the friend behaves.