I've been meeting a girl from my school for a couple of weeks now, we get along very well, she is sleeping with me for the third time this weekend. I've already been to her home. We cuddle a lot but haven't kissed yet because we've known each other for a long time and we both want to take it a little slower. I want to change that on Friday, do you think it's okay to ask her after the first kiss if she wants to become my girlfriend?
I'm 17 (she is 16) and had two good relationships, one 8 months and one 6 months,
For her, I'm the first boy she really does something with, she hasn't had her first kiss yet, so should I come up with something special or do you think it's okay if I just watch her on Netflix or kiss her
I think she will want to process the kiss in peace first. If you want to take it slow, take it slow.
Don't do that big of a thing or she's probably excited and then it might be uncomfortable to watch Netflix with her or watch the moon or something.
I (27 / f) think that if you cuddle now, that there must be something between you. Otherwise she would (in my opinion) not "seek" any closeness.
I would definitely go through with the kiss then you see how it goes on. If she accepts him, you ask her & is good.
In any case, wish you the best of luck & keep your fingers crossed that something will come of it.
Thank-you
