I had a date with a girl the day before yesterday. It went relatively well, she often looked me in the eye when she spoke. We were walking and she really wanted to stay with me until I was picked up instead of going home on the way back (my pickup location was a detour for her). However, she didn't want to be kissed, she always turned her head a little when I looked into her eyes longer. I also suggested that she come over to see me on Netflix next week. Her reaction was that she turned her head and said nothing, it gave a strange feeling. When I was at home, I asked her if she had arrived safely at home (with a heart), which she replied without a heart. Yesterday and today she didn't write for a long time, she took 10 or 20 hours to answer. I asked her if she would like to meet at my home. She replied (after 20 hours) that she "wants to meet again" first. So she probably thinks that we should go for a walk again. I have not yet answered. Is she unsure or why is she doing this? How would you assess the whole situation? And what would you answer in my place?
I assume you don't know each other too well / long? Then that's perfectly normal. She doesn't trust you yet. Maybe she also had bad experiences. Or she is afraid that you are looking for sex straight away.
It was just too fast for her. Don't go stormy. After the first date you are not invited to kiss. Get to know each other better first. With the invitation to watch Netflix you only give her the feeling of being a fun mattress, but not exactly the feeling that it could become a relationship.
It may be that she is averse to it anyway and wants to keep it with a friendship.
Don't put them under pressure! So you will achieve exactly the opposite of what you want. Your home is a very intimate place and not ideal for the 2nd date! So meet your wish to meet again in public! And don't push her to kiss. Maybe she never had a boyfriend.
If everything goes too slowly for you, then it is not the right one for you.
I think she is a little unsure at first, I find that quite normal after a first date from my own experience. Especially when it could be the first possible relationship, there's always a lot of uncertainty. I think you don't have to worry too much, but first get to know them better and let them come to you. If she wants to meet a third time and it stays the same as you say at the second meeting, just ask her if she really wants to continue meeting with you because she seems unsure about whether she wants to get to know you at all
After the first date, in my opinion, you expect a lot. A kiss, a meeting at your home. Go slower, give her time to get to know you first, to get trust…
