So first of all, I'm 13 years old and male. I have a 15 year old brother with whom I can talk about anything, no matter what! We do something every day from gambling to doing homework. Are mostly watching Netflix at night etc. We know and logically also (naked) for the reason that we zsm. Go to the bathroom. My mother lets us own too! But lately she's been telling my brother to get dressed because I'm 2 years younger! Besides, he always gets in trouble, which I personally hate!
So my question: is my mother reacting and what can I do?
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You both tell the two of you that you are eventually getting older. Your younger brother will soon have pubic hair too.
Sometimes I don't understand mothers (I'm one myself) even when you touch yourselves Sch. That's testing out.
I think she reacts. Bit over, you can ask me the questions.
I'm the younger xD
Why don't you ask your mother why she explicitly only wants him to wear something and not you too?
I meant her because he's your older brother
Hmm, since you both grew up together, I don't understand that directly either. Did you already tell her that you don't think it's bad that he's naked.
because apparently she thinks this is a problem for you
Okay, your mom is definitely overreacting.
If you turn something simple into something complicated (what she does) then you create / risk problems that you think you can prevent.
It should be perfectly normal to see yourself naked, especially if you've been used to it from a young age.
Even if you touch each other or experiment, that's completely normal, a lot of siblings do that, and I don't know anything else with my brother.
Changing something / making regulations (for no reason) is not the right thing to do.
It would only make sense if your brother objected to any problems (arguments, sayings, jealousy, privacy, etc.).
Talk to your brother, ask him what he thinks of it.
If you are of the same opinion, talk to your mother about it, say that you think it is inappropriate and uncomfortable and that you like to be together.
The fact is:
If it is a problem for you alone / you can't reasonably justify it,
then she must not forbid you, that would also see the protection of minors.
