So as I said in my last question, I like M / 15 quite a 12 year old, we have known each other for about 2 months and well we get along really well. Yesterday I stayed with a friend and she stayed with his sister. We talked to four of us all night, at some point we wanted to lie down but then only my friend lay down π . I, the 12 year old and the sister then went into the sister's room and then wanted to watch a movie on Netflix but the 12 year old was not well and therefore I wanted to comfort her, we both talked a little and she did it told me that she likes me and I told her I like her. After the conversation I asked her if we wanted to be together and she said "yes". The three of us sat on the sofa and watched a movie, me and the 12 year old cuddled a bit, a little later she hugged me tightly and we had our first kiss together and we continued to kiss until she did Sister has stopped us π . And tomorrow I'll go swimming with them and I don't know how to behave towards themπ . Would you have some advice for me?
PS: sorry for the whole text and again like the other question your last boyfriend was 16 and she is my first girlfriend π .
Personally, I no longer think it is borderline when a 16-year-old is with a 12-year-old. Not only is this illegal on a sexual level, the difference in maturity is also enormous.
So it would be helpful to know how old you are. If you're still 13 (14), I think your relationship is perfectly fine, with 14 being the limit in my eyes.
The problem is that people develop very quickly in this phase of their lives and can therefore make a considerable difference in maturity for 1 or 2 years.
But apart from that, your question is how you should behave towards her in the swimming pool tomorrow. Be very open and not jammed. Because if you are unsure, it will be even more so. You can take her hand when you are out of the pool, you can slide together, etc.
Don't worry too much πͺπ½ππ½
He wrote that he was 16.
You have found a friend you like and who likes you. There's nothing to prevent you from being together. Only with sex you should wait a bit - you know.
Why shouldn't you go to the bathroom and fool around in the water now? You have decided that you want to be together.
Just try it out, how it goes with you.
You are both wrong, he wrote that he is 15
Yeah oops, I made a mistake
Hehe.
12j is of course still too young for sex.
But a friendship is ok.
You only got to know each other anyway
And if you are still together in 4-5J, you can make further plans.
If you both were over 18 and wanted to get married, you would actually have an ideal age difference
Was only added later xD
