It's just that I stood or stand on a girl and that's why I asked her if she wanted to do something with me. After several weeks, you got to know each other better. At some point it came to the first night with me, we just watched Netflix and then I got the idea that I would watch horror films with her. I thought she was afraid of these films and so she clung to me.
So it went on for a few months, so that she came to me more often and we watched horror films. Because you get closer and closer, you just cuddle all the time. I still hoped that it would develop even more but through all the stories about her that she used to like to cuddle with other people and that everyone else wanted more, she distanced herself from these people.
I'm just afraid that if I try to do more with her or just ask that she will distance herself from me. Usually I don't really care if I get a basket. In this case it is unfortunately something different because she is a classmate of mine and I have never had such a good partner to watch films before and I also enjoy being able to cuddle with a girl.
So my question now is whether I should try more or whether I should just leave it and accept it so that I don't screw up our friendship?
Yes, or you weigh up whether she tries more times.
I would risk it. You only live once and you can start it like this: "I find you attractive do you me too?" if she then says no, you can always deny it if it gets too much for you. If she's the right one, she'll still be friends with you. If not, then it is just that it disappears from your life and you will have to struggle with it. But as it seems to me, you are a very strong person.
Depending on if you could handle it if she found another partner. It just depends on how strong your feelings are towards her.
If you don't mind if you just cuddle until she has a boyfriend, don't try anymore, just enjoy it until she tries more.
However, if your feelings for her are stronger so that you wouldn't be able to cope with them if she had a partner, then try more.
