I'm w21 I have been actively meeting a man for 1 month, we meet once or twice a week. We got to know each other through tinder one day he sent me a screenshot and showed me how he deleted tinder, and introduced me to one of his best friends. However, we almost always only meet at his house, we don't always have sex, but we're often there watching Netflix or he cooks for me. I once made the suggestion to go out for cocktails, what we did and where I wanted to invite him and he then paid. Can he be serious when he introduces me to his best friend who added me to insta before?
sber me always just invites him to his house I don't want to slip into the F + rail again I want something serious and I don't know how to convey it to him without being afraid… Should I possibly cancel a couple of meetings so as not to to be too available (that he sometimes misses me and doesn't take me for granted?) or make it rare? He already shows interest and asks me very often when we will see each other again, but it is when he always goes to his house or for a walk. Can you help me or do I put too much stress on myself?
Yes, you do. Just make suggestions again and again, nothing seems to have anything against it - as long as I understand your creepy text correctly.
Why do you think he introduced you to a friend and deleted Tinder?
Why creepy 💭 hm why does not the man think that unsettles me and gives me wrong signals
He showed me via screen recording that he deleted tinder
What exactly are you missing?
Getting to know each other takes time… 1-2 times a week can become more…
but don't rush. Maybe spending a week together: being together day and night.
That will be fine.
Where does he give you wrong signals?
Maybe he just likes to be at home. And now (Covid-19) even more so
What would you imagine that you should do together?
I mean, what does it change whether you go out, eat and then have sex, or don't go out, watch movies, eat and then have sex?
But you should actually talk about your possibly different ideas about spending time together
It could be with you sometimes
or is 1-2 times a week too little for you?
What are your common interests in leisure activities? (even if not everything is currently feasible, you can still know each other)
I already understood that, but why did he do it? What do you think?
I still live with my parents so it's a little difficult
I could imagine that he is just a little creative and has something nice plans like eating breakfast etc.
I don't know when a man is interested but never outside what suggests
Mouth, as I said, I do not know how to refuse to chase him away or to say something wrong if it is not as I think I just don't want to get hurt so I think so much and just wonder if it can be trd a trick is to introduce me to your girlfriend and and and…
I don't know. I just want my blatant self-protection to stop. I'm just surprised that he always has to invite me to him and I have to ask him if there's anything you could do outside
can really appreciate whether he means it
Everyone has their own strategy or preferences:
For example: The French quickly present their latest conquest to their friends, and then observe you in contact with others and draw conclusions about you.
Some want to get to know you first before they show up outside with you… It could also be that he wants to spend his time alone with you first.
no matter! Be it as it may…
Who thinks does not love and who loves does not think!
Calm down…
At worst, what can happen to you: You are an experience richer…
do you want to commit yourself to this one man for your whole life? What is wrong with approaching it: I'm serious and do my best.
The other one will always be an unpredictable quantity for you! And that's a good thing, because nothing is more boring than 100% security.
Apparently you wanted to have sex with him at a time when you hadn't asked yourself such questions.
If you had doubts about sex, you wouldn't have done it…
Relationship questions hadn't arisen there anyway.
Possibly. Does he think you want exactly one F + (occasional meetings with sex, but otherwise without obligation)
Maybe you should talk about what kind of performances you have, which is relatively early after a month and a maximum of 8 meetings.
I would only introduce a 'best friend of mine (which for me is my long-time dance partner) to a woman who is important to me… And vice versa, she does it that way.
We had never imagined affairs to each other.
The fact that he deleted Tinder could signal that he is not looking for further contacts, but is completely satisfied with you
You can also support him creatively by suggesting that you go out for a meal
Maybe he's just a little uncreative…
Hm no idea either to show me that he is serious about me or it is a scam
By "creepy" he means that there's still a lot of room for improvement in your spelling and punctuation. We would like to understand you even better.
You but thanks.
Games because of deliberately no longer answers, make extra cancellations, etc. Are the deadly enemy of honest. You don't make yourself rare, you are! If you do that, he will quickly notice what your intention is and then it will be called Bye Bye. Take it easy and relaxed. Just concentrate more on yourself and your life. And test him calmly again and again how seriously he means it.
Thanks in every sense
Simply by constantly inviting me to his home
It may be that he is a little creative that you said very well, hm I think it's too early. We meet 13-14 times now and I only had sex with him on the 8th date he was always very upset Distance and just kissed me at the end at the bus stop.
Hm that is true even if he deletes a dating app he could be serious or introduce me to his friends 🙄 well I think I'm going crazy but I was often injured and just want to protect myself spasmodically and can't fall or fall Just drop me
I can well imagine that you are afraid of hitting the binding track too quickly for him
If you can still take the uncertainty, wait a little longer
Maybe there's a suitable situation or even he mentions the topic himself
Being introduced to friends and family is generally considered to be more binding
Just ask his girlfriend through the flower, inconspicuously how he does it with girls and what kind of partner he is
Better yet, meet them and have a friendly conversation
Certainly a few things will be revealed, but not everything and that's ok, loyal to your buddy
Whoever asks wins. Ask him why he's doing this and really get to know him better by asking more questions.
