Hi, I've been dating a girl for several weeks. She is 19, I'm 18 and we have often met to go for a walk or watch Netflix. Now that I want to take it seriously, she means that she really feels good, but this tingling in her stomach is not there yet and it is not enough for more at the moment. She would like to think more about it for the next few days. How can I show her that I'm really the right person or should I just leave her alone and ignore her and give her the "cool" one?
Or should I give her more attention
What do you all mean?
Oh oh oh that doesn't sound good at all. You should get used to the idea and accept that it won't work. If she needs time to "get her feelings clear", it just means that she needs time to come up with a plausible excuse and to put you off as nicely as possible. If I were you, I would withdraw, try to come to terms with the loss and look elsewhere.
I think so too but hope dies last haha
Is also possible, but he doesn't have to throw the gun in the grain just yet.
She told you very clearly that she was not feeling well. You are not the one for her. Please - leave her alone. If she wants to get in touch with you again, then she'll come. The more you push, the worse it gets.
I would not withdraw completely. Keep showing her that you're interested, but if she doesn't respond much to your messages, don't push her any further. Give her the time she needs but keep paying attention and don't try to play the "cool" game. That usually doesn't go down well or comes off quickly. She has to realize that you are really interested in her.
DO NOT GIVE A COOL! Never if you like her. That is repulsive to us. Get her to look into your eyes and tell her how you think about her. Then caress her face and hair. If she's a normal woman then she'll definitely find it beautiful. If you're lucky, she'll tell you too… Dare yourself and be a little romantic, it'll be fine. LG
Huh? She said she really feels good, why else should she meet me 7-8 times?
I think so i will do it thank you
I would just spend more time with her, mostly feelings develop over the course of time if it suits, maybe go on trips together (according to Sars-CoV-2) e.g. Thermal baths, (if you live in the mountains) hiking, going out to eat with her etc., Unfortunately I know the feeling only too well, but it doesn't help to force someone into a relationship
The only thing you could do, every now and then while walking, if the situation is just right, briefly touch your shoulder, if you don't flinch, it is basically a good sign, and if you look at it on a biochemical level now it is oxytocin (cuddle hormone) released.
No problem I know that sometimes you just need a little more time and that doesn't necessarily have to be bad
We're over that, we have cuddled with each other for several hours, etc.
