Phew, difficult situation. So I'll start. I need your advice.
I'm in contact with a girl quite often and now for a long time (I'd say close). I've known her for a long time, because we go to the same class, but since Corona we have often been in quarantine, had contact with online Netflix and where there was no lockdown and also met in pairs.
We're not together. But write to us or "Bussi" or love you and so on. The thing is for sure I'm not sure if I'm in love. On Snapchat we have flames and a red heart for a long time, not what that would mean, but I'll say it anyway. I think if you can put it that way, I'm exactly in between.
Should I go one step higher when I know if I'm in love and risk a good friendship. Another good friend of mine thinks we're a good match. Well, if everything wasn't so easy.
You don't ask about a relationship. A relationship develops over time, but only if you both manage to maintain and intensify the contact.
Take the step. Talk to her. Openly tell her that you think you might have feelings for her. Love will then develop.
Sooner or later you will regret it if you don't take the step. I believe that you have a very good chance of something very beautiful and great in your and her life.
No do not ask!
Why? Because a relationship arises and therefore you don't have to ask… Example: You both ended up in bed. So what happens when you both have feelings for each other. Boom => relationship! Quite simply… Whether it's kissing or sex… It just depends on how old you are.
It doesn't matter if you write "Bussi" with her or something, because best friends do that too. Snapchat is also absolutely irrelevant.
I really don't wish that you are in the friend zone but I can imagine it very well. Unless you've already signaled to her that you don't want her as your "buddy"… If you don't have that, there are 2 options. Either you do that from now on or you let them sit. I know that sounds awesome, but it corresponds to reality! It's that easy…
It is exactly like that! Very cool
Thank you, you make an effort.
So how do you talk to an 11 year old kid? What was there with the bed? I would be ashamed.
Doesn't it always mean: love is friendship?
Why do so many people think that a relationship is the end of a friendship? A deep relationship (ugly word!) / Partnership can't be experienced without friendship. (?)
Well, in most cases where friends are together, things go wrong. Because when they split up, things often don't go well apart. But yes, there are also examples where things are going well
We live in a time when several companions in life fill one life. Friendships also diverge, regardless of whether sex plays a role or a common household is run. In my experience, these are not most cases.
Please imagine a door. If you go through there are two options. Either you get something really nice, or you get a chocolate cake without sugar. If you don't go through, you won't get anything.
Even if you get the cake without sugar, it might taste bitter for a moment, that's it. If you want to go through too late, someone will later take all the contents from behind the door.
Rather regret doing something than something you didn't do and tell her
Okay nice then you will be ashamed… Who cares
