He never invites me on dates have been for 3 months zsm?

Hey I've been with my boyfriend zsm for 3 months, I already know his friends and family and will soon meet my mother. I really like him, the sex is good too.

However, we were only out 4 times in the three months, I think it's very little at the beginning of a relationship you do a lot and at some point you probably only chill at home. But now we only chill at home and I get bored. I'm not used to that, my previous relationship was more varied. Sure you shouldn't compare men, but it burdens me… Most of the time I'm only at his home and he cooks for me or makes me a cocktail and we then have sex or watch Netflix, it never comes up: "Make yourself chic, let's go eat "or to the cinema. I've already hinted at a lot and he almost always ignored it. I don't want it to become a SEX relationship.

I think men should show interest or make you feel like planning something. It's not about money or anything, just the gesture.

The other times I had planned something and we had drinks and co, but he never does it. Is it just sex for him after all?

Yesterday and today I slept with him and wanted to ask him, but I didn't dare… It was nice but back home with him.

However, I'm playing with the idea of writing to him today or tomorrow and saying that to him… Or should I address something like face2face?
Right now I'm just really angry and sad and somehow feel worthless and used in the long run.

I didn't feel special on the way home

what does that mean and should I write to him or does it come across as diagonally if yesterday everything was nice and now I arrive with something like that.

Maybe he just doesn't feel like going out as often as you do. Why does that have to mean that the relationship is only about sex or that he is no longer interested in you?

By the way, I've never really gone out with my girlfriend with fancy dressing and big plans. It's just not our thing.

Better to clarify this face to face.
It doesn't have to be a sex relationship, maybe he's just not the outdoor type. Talk to him openly, tell him what you want, what is troubling you and above all, listen to what he has to say.
Maybe you can find a middle ground, I definitely hope so and keep my fingers crossed for you. ♪ ♫

There are two of you who don't like it and I'm a person in the relationship who likes to do it

Then you are the one who likes to go out and invite you, while he likes to cook something for you and maybe finds it nicer at home. Just tell him that you would like to go out with him more often, but you have the feeling that only you are interested in going out, so just talk to him about it.

A lot of couples are just comfortable at home; that has nothing to do with a sexual relationship. Know couples who have only dated seven times in five years and have a very good partnership. Not everyone thinks going out is great or that it is a must.

If you want to go out, just tell him. Best in the face so that it doesn't come across as sneaky and you can have a real conversation about it. In my opinion, allusions are the death of a relationship. Open communication is the key word. If you can't just tell him "hey, let's have a nice dinner on Friday" or "would you like to go bowling on Saturday?", Then you have completely different problems.

My boyfriend and I have the unofficial rule that we go to our favorite pub at least once a month and go to the movies, swim or bowl. Maybe something like that would help, then you don't always have to make hints that you want to do something more often.

Don't worry, my friend and I were hardly out either, we did even less than you did, we didn't even have a TV evening and that in 2 years😂

It's okay too. But just talk to him about it before you imagine anything else