Am w15 and he is 18 we get along very well, we're almost zsm, so to speak (still in the getting to know phase) and he is just completely different from me so how should I put it e.g. He is filled with friends every evening and always has to do something and then I'm more the person who can only sit at home. Netflix chill sth. He also likes to be around people and I rather not soo so I also have friends but yes I hope you know what I mean. Or he is more spoiled he gets a lot from his parents and my family is a bit different there 😬 So I hope you know what I mean that he is already different than me but we get along very well and are there hold a lot of feelings in the game but I'm just afraid that there will be a lot of arguments in the or maybe because we're so different 🙆🏼♀️ My friend also thinks that she thinks that we won't be zsm for so long but I would like to have a long bz maybe my only one. What do you think about it? Do you think it's bad that we're so different or that it might fit well? They always say opposites attract.
Chilling at home but I think you know what your girlfriend means so don't want to go into it big now but think the way you described it won't last long
Okey😬 the thing is we have been writing eig kt for a long time now, feeling every day all the time for half a year and everything is just right 🙆🏼♀️ Well, look and yeah, just being at home is just chilling haha
Yes, I understand what you mean, but if I had a girlfriend who is just the opposite then you somehow don't have so much in common, so and write and that's not everything, everything really has to fit so that it lasts for a long time, but no one wants to Make an eye but would think again very carefully because if it weren't so bad you would hardly post it on good question haha yes no matter yes home best haha
Oke yes, well, we understand each other really well, but if we really come zsm I'll just force him to watch Netflix with me 😂 but yeah
Yes or so, nh😂😀
Opposites can attract and be enriching. If e.g. If one part is a bit more introverted / shy and the other part is more extroverted / dominant, then both can learn a slice from the other. The introvert learns how to get out of himself, the extrovert, on the other hand, also learns to take off the accelerator from time to time. So it can complement each other positively. The same now applies to the things you describe. It doesn't matter that your families are different. It's not something that touches the core of your partnership. What could change anything about your feelings towards each other. He goes out often, you don't. Through him you will go out more often and he might learn from you that he stays at home sometimes.
It actually depends on which areas these opposites affect. When it comes to visions of the future, for example, it would definitely be easier to follow the motto "like to join in the same". Both should already be looking in the same direction, e.g. Family? Children? Job? How should all of this later be roughly designed for the other? You instinctively look for similarities in the other because you feel better understood and identified.
The same applies to attachment behavior. If one of them clings and wants a lot of closeness, but the other rather wants to have more peace and quiet, then this closeness-distance behavior, which is different in both, can lead to discrepancies. I don't mean to say that opposites are bad. Rather, I want to point out that the more opposites there are, the greater the potential for controversy and from then on the question arises whether you want that at all. A relationship shouldn't be "exhausting" in itself. It should be beneficial for both. So that the foundation is based on "like and like to join", but the more "minor" things definitely have room for improvement, i.e. The opposites are also present.
I feel haha, just dangle at home, play Netflix and chill out. Simply perfect 😅
I think if you get along well, why are you afraid? The most important thing is that you understand each other. And arguments are normal in the relationship. No relationship is 100% perfect! Of course you can have an argument because you are so different, but if the love is stronger, you will definitely manage it or not?
