Long-distance relationship. Hope?

Cl
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I've had a long distance relationship for almost 4 months. We have never met because it is not possible at the moment (400km), my family is not allowed to know anything about my relationship. I'm 16 years old, he is 19. We have been safe with the relationship since the beginning, sometimes we have doubted it (it is so for the moment). Do you think that can work? I never loved anyone so much as he did. We used to call every day, watch Netflix online and so on. Now we hardly do anything together. What can I do? Meeting is currently not, that will take a few months. No answers like "love over the internet is not possible". I know well what I feel.

Fo

That's not a relationship. You basically do not know each other. You do not even know what he looks like. That's an online friendship, if that.

What you feel is being in love, not love. You are 16. You are in puberty. That's completely normal. And there will be others, even if you deny it now.

Cl

I know what he looks like.

Fo

You know a picture. Or a video. It's naïve to think that if you've never met him in person, it's really all about him. I would have given you more maturity at the age of 16.

Gu

That's not a relationship and you can't love him either, because you DO NOT KNOW him… That's ridiculous… You do not even know what he's doing when he's not talking to you, maybe he has such "long-distance relationships" yet Running with others… You're really naive for your age

Vi

It may be so, but it does not have to, why do you always have to attack the questioners personally?

Vi

Try to find an event in the middle of the track (concert, funfair, park, zoo, …) where you really want to go. Then you ask if you are allowed to go there with friends as a group and ask him to come there as well.

Tell your girlfriends about it and then you can see him for 1-2 hours and give you a first impression.

Fo

This is not a personal attack, but unfortunately a finding that can be dangerous.

Cl

Thanks

Vi

With pleasure