Is it over? Do you need space?

I got to know the girl I thought was perfect a while ago and I was in a relationship with her for a while, but I didn't always appreciate her enough. We got to know each other abroad because I now had to go back to Germany because of Corona, what I was afraid of from the start happened and we're a long way away. When we were together I often showed little love because I was afraid a long distance relationship would not work. A long-distance relationship was always an option for her, but she felt that I would not love her as much as she loved me. The first few days after my return everything was fine, but it started to close with me internally. I just noticed with her distance that she started to build up how much I love her and how much I would like to have a long distance relationship. After a few arguments on the phone, she explained to me that although she loved me, it was no longer the same feelings as back then. She currently wants very little contact and needs space and time to think. She wrote that it is possible to get the old feelings back, but she is not sure. She is currently writing very coldly with me and keeps contact to a minimum. She doesn't ignore me directly and even contacted yesterday, for example, by recommending a link to a movie on Netflix. At the beginning when she said she needed space I didn't stay on the phone and kept calling and so what she said made her angry and would remove her from me. Now I have apologized for it and my old mistakes and have said to comply with your wish. I want to know have you already had such experiences and do you think that, as she says, she can awaken old feelings again?

I love her and it hurts that she confuses me.

Whether it can or not depends on her.

Give her the space and don't write to her for a few days and don't call her. If she answers, something will be up to you.

Take a deep breath, it can work if both really want it. But you can't do anything about feelings.

Whether it will be what depends on her

Thank you I will continue to give her her place and hope that she gives me another chance.

Have you ever experienced something similar or noticed that it ended well?

My long-distance relationship broke up.

My psychologist also had a long-distance foreign relationship. Today they are married and have children. But I don't know anything about arguments.

Fingers crossed

I think that of course she will already let the next "Sugar Daddy" slide over her. I was often in the DomRep myself professionally… Boy, boy…

Head up, I'm sure you'll find a new one!

You played games and are now wondering about their behavior?

You reap what you sow.