Worry my girlfriend cheats on me, opinions?

Have been a little over 1 year with my girlfriend together, she had previously cheated on her ex. Now she is visiting her male boyfriend at the weekend. I know you're watching Netflix right now (the typical Netflix and chill stop) and since then she's not writing to me. Could it be that she is also cheating on me? She's spent a lot of time lately with him and less with me. Am I worried unfounded or justified? What do you think?

I can understand that this moment is very difficult for you.
If I were you, I'd use that time and ask myself if I'd like to do that in a relationship at all?
Personally, I could not handle it when my partner drives to a friend's place over the weekend and sleeps there. But for me, this relationship would end very quickly.

The worries are already justified, but on the other hand, she would not have to tell you that she's spending time with this friend, so it's a good sign.

For me, it was the case that an ex of mine met with only one girlfriend a couple of times, and at some point he broke up with me. It turns out that it was an ex of his, who wanted something from him again and they got together again

You should not do anything at all. Either she comes to you, tells you everything or nothing went wrong. For everything else you have no evidence and it would be unfair to hold it up. Because maybe there was really nothing and they are just friends. Personally, I would not want my girlfriend to be with any guy over the weekend. I also do not meet with any Mullen and then chill at the Dennen in bed.

So you would not talk to your girlfriend about it?

The relationship would be faster than instant noodles

Mhh I might ask how it was. And in their reaction, one can deduce much there. Personally, it is important for me to know if a person is honest. So I assume that most women would then "buckle".

Well, let's assume that you have a good knowledge of human nature.

Then the woman would not cheat you for sure. Because you choose the factor honesty. Honesty is probably also the property of loyalty… You understand what I mean.

But put yourself in the position of the questioner. I think I would do an FBI interview with the woman… Guantanamo would be a joke

Mhhh too right. But we want to abide by the law… Electric shocks and waterboarding is not so nice 😅. You're right, but his question was "What do you think?". The history of the girlfriend is of course such a thing. I do not know his girlfriend, so hopefully, so I do not want to pretend to be unfaithful to her. In the end, the questioner ends and it turns out, there was nothing.

Yes, that can be natural.

I know the woman just as little.

BUT… Would my wife arrive with something that she wants to stay with her best friend for a weekend… Netflix and chill. Does not work.

Otherwise I would never do that.

I do not really, but there are people who like to just like this space and can handle it.

The questioner apparently not 😅

But I can't necessarily blame him, I would maybe even allow it or try it out, if my girlfriend did not have such a past.