I'm told I have no real personality and I'm bored, I'm afraid it is true?

I do not know how to ask the question and what I can expect as an answer, I try to explain as clearly as possible.

I'm 19 years old and still go to school, I have a small group of friends with maybe 2 really good friends, but we do something every two weeks at most, I hear from the people in my class that they do something I do almost every day never could, I don't feel the need to meet other people and do something, I'm usually invited, the initiative rarely comes from me. Most of my free time is spent in front of my PC with YouTube and Netflix. I'm in a sports club but have rarely been able to motivate me to go there recently.

When I was 19 I had zero experience with girls, so really zero, which I'm starting to worry about because I don't want to end up as an eternal bachelor. My friends tried to couple me several times, which has never worked until now. "He has no personality and is boring" I was told several times, although I really tried to write "leg".

I can't say more about my life because there just isn't anymore, I feel like I'm wasting it.

I have become aware in the past few weeks that I do not have a normal social life. Although I'm aware of this, I simply do not have the attraction and / or motivation to do anything. I also don't manage to develop this motivation and I prefer to sit on the PC on Saturday night instead of doing something.

Why am I not like most other people and have fun and want to do things with my friends? Maybe one of you was in a similar situation and has some tips for me?

I hope I was able to describe my situation to some extent.

I'm also quite anti-social. What helped me was less electric. Equipment.

You are just a lot, more alert, more active and friendlier.

In a nutshell: more in life

I'm a little older than you, but I'll do the same as you.

My girlfriend recently said to me whether I'm going home now and enjoying my pensioner weekend. Then she said I would miss a lot if I go so little, etc.

But it is my life and in MY life I do what I like, for me it is true. I work 120 percent. I'm just happy if I can just laze around on my day off.

This is my thing, I have to live my life and be happy in it. Because that's me.

And at home it's the most beautiful anyway: -D

Go to a club and do something productive, you never know when the day will come when you regret everything how you wasted your life. I have cancer and I lived like you, I'm 23 years old and I wish I had started to live properly earlier. Now I'm not sure if I can do it, I have lost my hair and I'm always very tired. I never really lived.

It is a personality variant and not an illness, take yourself as you are. But definitely do sports (preferably where you get contacts) instead of sitting in front of the PC.

Whether you are perceived by other people as boring or without personality depends on what they think is exciting.

In our society you get indoctrinated that it is interesting to have a lot of hobbies, to travel a lot, to have a lot of friends, to go out every night etc.

However, I think that everything is fine with you. On the contrary, if you do exactly what you enjoy and what YOU like, then for me it is a strong, self-determined personality that resists peer pressure.

Of course you can start a coaching or personality training of any self-appointed coach. There you will learn tricks on how to look attractive and interesting and how to manipulate people. But are any people worth the effort? Of course not.