Sometimes it is not as easy as described. And I'm gay, 18. But it's about my best friend, who is also 18. She's had a boyfriend for about three weeks. He looks really pretty like a model. So blonde hair undercut and styled or cap. He always runs around with a tank top and sunglasses and always with other Nike, shorts or holes jeans. Like a model with a six pack and stuff. He is 18. He seemed really nice, visited me in pairs and so on. But about 4 days ago, she said as a couple that she had sex recently and then he told him that he had a financial bottleneck. The next day, they also had sex, after sex he said if she could not lend him money. Or can pay for any services. So she assumes to pay for sex or have no idea, doesn't want to interfere with me either. I just told her he was going to take advantage of her or something. Anyway, they're still together. Yesterday I was alone at home and he came without her, I thought he wanted to confront me for taking advantage of the fact that she might have said that after all. I asked what he wanted and he said I had a storm and all. What was true since my parents were gone a week. My mother is a nurse and has a 12-hour shift in the university clinic 50 km away and has a room there. My father doesn't live with us. Anyway, I didn't tell anything about my best friend. He then showed me in his gym bag that he had alcohol with him. We just chilled in my room and drank alcohol. Then we watched Netflix. And then we think we were already drunk, then I asked where his girlfriend is and he said that she doesn't have to be everywhere. Then he danced and wanted me to dance too. Then he said I already know what you are. I asked, yes what. He said you're gay. Then I asked how did he know that. Then he said my girlfriend told him that, but I don't think he'd have noticed. He started flirting at me and took off his pants and twerked. Then I said what the money was about and whether that was his trick and that. He just wanted to borrow money. And I was so turned on by that, first he kissed me and then we kissed in bed and then unfortunately still had sex. It was really like a dream. Then at the end I said it was just fun, how about you give me 10 euro now? He even gave me some. The next morning he left. The next day he wanted to do something with me again. Now I have ignored him and in his last voice message he was angry, he is so we're friends and the 10 euro are even free. Now I'm afraid he tells my girlfriend. I was so unfair to her. I couldn't control myself at all. I don't know if that's true with the money and I wanted to repeat such a meeting, just ignore it for a bad conscience. I'm really lost.
Well that's how it is when you are stupid… You hurt yourself and others too.
Well, you should think about something like this, especially if you know the history - if it weren't, you could somehow bend it.
The best way to do this is to go ahead with honesty, at the risk of losing your girlfriend and possibly your boyfriend.
Everything else is dishonest to you, her and him.
Tell your best friend what happened and be honest. The chances that she will forgive you if she finds out about you are greater than if she came from him.
