Sometimes it is not as easy as described. And I'm gay, 18. But it's about my best friend, who is also 18. She's had a boyfriend for about three weeks. He looks really pretty like a model. So blonde hair undercut and styled or cap. He always runs around with a tank top and sunglasses and always with other Nike, shorts or holes jeans. Like a model with a six pack and stuff. He is 18. He seemed really nice, visited me in pairs and so on. But about 4 days ago, she said as a couple that she had sex recently and then he told him that he had a financial bottleneck. The next day, they also had sex, after sex he said if she could not lend him money. Or can pay for any services. So she assumes to pay for sex or have no idea, doesn't want to interfere with me either. I just told her he was going to take advantage of her or something. Anyway, they're still together. Yesterday I was alone at home and he came without her, I thought he wanted to confront me for taking advantage of the fact that she might have said that after all. I asked what he wanted and he said I had a storm and all. What was true since my parents were gone a week. My mother is a nurse and has a 12-hour shift in the university clinic 50 km away and has a room there. My father doesn't live with us. Anyway, I didn't tell anything about my best friend. He then showed me in his gym bag that he had alcohol with him. We just chilled in my room and drank alcohol. Then we watched Netflix. And then we think we were already drunk, then I asked where his girlfriend is and he said that she doesn't have to be everywhere. Then he danced and wanted me to dance too. Then he said I already know what you are. I asked, yes what. He said you're gay. Then I asked how did he know that. Then he said my girlfriend told him that, but I don't think he'd have noticed. He started flirting at me and took off his pants and twerked. Then I said what the money was about and whether that was his trick and that. He just wanted to borrow money. And I was so turned on by that, first he kissed me and then we kissed in bed and then unfortunately still had sex. It was really like a dream. Then at the end I said it was just fun, how about you give me 10 euro now? He even gave me some. The next morning he left. The next day he wanted to do something with me again. Now I have ignored him and in his last voice message he was angry, he is so we're friends and the 10 euro are even free. Now I'm afraid he tells my girlfriend. I was so unfair to her. I couldn't control myself at all. I don't know if that's true with the money and I wanted to repeat such a meeting, just ignore it for a bad conscience. I'm really lost.
I would say everything was done correctly! That would make it clear that her friend was a mistake and that you are a bad friend. She no longer needs to waste her time with both of you! Now tell her so that she can find out.
Oh wow…
So, what went there sounds real, complicated "… If you ask me, he only uses your best friend, just the saying:" She doesn't have to be everywhere "says everything right?
Well you thought that in the end something went wrong and you should tell your best friend if you ask me… Sure, she will probably be angry and / or disappointed but she deserves to know the truth. On the other hand, I believe that the fact that her boyfriend cheated on you somewhat dampens the anger at you "…
But as I said you should already tell her. It's best to think about a "reparation" and apologize. I think if she realizes that you are really serious she will not be angry with you for too long and unfortunately I don't know what or how you do it with her "friend" either, but I think the most important thing is to start with yours Best friend to tell.
