Met a nice girl online a few weeks ago. We met after a few days of writing back and forth. The meeting went not bad, we ate something and watched Netflix together. The next day I wanted to arrange a next meeting with her. However, she didn't answer me anymore. After three days I deleted you from my WhatsApp contacts (I probably overreacted). Then she wrote me ironically Thank you and locked me. That was about 4 weeks ago. Now I saw by accident that she unlocked me. Should I write to her again or let it go? If yes, what? A new meeting?
If she did not answer you for 3 days after the first meeting, you can assume that there's no real interest in her, especially since there was even a message after you deleted her.
For personal interest only: Why do you watch TV / Netflix together on your first date? It doesn't get any boring, or you can't really get to know each other if you look into the "telly" all the time.
It was pretty late. It was also her idea. We lay down in bed together and cuddled together. If she hadn't been interested from the start, she wouldn't be in bed with me, would she? So I don't quite understand them. I wrote her a total of 3 WhatsApps before I deleted her.
Then write to her and ask why she didn't reply to your messages for 3 days. It doesn't cost anything ;-)
Don't think she's interested in you. Doesn't seem like it was fun to meet…
Looks like she didn't thank you ironically. It should sound ironic, but she really means it. You saved her from giving yourself a basket in detail. (Girls usually don't like doing that.)
So as you described everything, it sounds like she has no interest in you.
But anyway, if you're still interested, I think it won't hurt if you write to her and ask how she's doing right now. And then you can find out for yourself whether she is really interested. The advantage is that if she doesn't answer or becomes cold, you won't think about it anymore.
But why do you think did she unlock me again?
Wonder why you chose to delete it just because it didn't answer you.
Maybe she wanted a little rest? Maybe the whole thing was too much for her?
By deleting it, it turned the tide and blocked you.
I would apologize to her first and say that you overreacted, even if you would not get an answer, then wait a bit before doing something again!
Yes, I overreacted. You're right. I will apologize to her and wait and see.
As written above - girls are clearly very reluctant to finish. It's always like she "definitely wants to keep a man". Not for a relationship, but rather that it may need some help from you.
