Why does not someone call and why is it so difficult to make contacts?

I really do not have any contact with anyone. At work I tried to do something with the people, even several years. I also accepted a new job, but it is always the same. If I give my number to the people and even if they are friendly and laugh with me, etc, in the end calls me anyway no one and if I write to them, then no one has time and a second time after a few days or weeks and a third time it's weird then, I'm not writing anybody anymore, it's been going on since I was a kid.

Me the PC annoying. Am mostly on Youtube and Netflix, have nothing more to do when I'm not working or not in fitness, over 5 years I've tried it now.

Is it the same with you, if you want to get to know someone? Why is it so funny?

You do not arrive. Sorry for my hard words. But what good is honey for your beard?

Do you like you? Are you blasting that life is fun for you? I'm afraid that's not the case. I suspect that therefore no one wants to be friends with you. This is not an insult - that is - I suspect - the truth. Work on your personality.

Believe it or not, is irrelevant!

But you have to believe in yourself. As long as you can't really say "I like me", nothing will work out. That's a process. It's best to get professional help. Alone, you can't continue - as you described in your comment.

Why should someone call you?

I also do not call anyone unless I have a specific reason. And I'm glad if nobody calls me without a good reason. That annoys me.

So, what reason should someone have to make contact with you? With you, who does nothing except Muckibude, PC, Youtube and Seriengucken?

I do not want to hurt you, but someone like that would be totally boring for me. You would be a person without qualities for me.

So what is fascinating about you?

What makes you unique?

What would someone miss who left you?

Just go other ways.

If the locals do not want to have anything to do with you, learn a foreign language and then just go the Flitzpiepen "foreign" (which I'm currently…).

;)

Do a dance class.

There's more movement than in front of the PC and you also get to know new people.

Get a dog. You always have to go for a ride and meet other people. Dogs are good introductory aids.

Buy a monthly ticket for bus and train and just sit in any bus / train. Sometimes you chat with people you see more often. Can someday invite you to a coffee and get to know each other?

Ask people if you can send them old-fashioned postcards. Then they have not only advertising in the mailbox…

If you give your number to others say that you rarely have time and try to be barely reachable the first time. That spurs on… At least it is more interesting than the feeling of being just an "emergency contact" because someone else has no one and just bored…

So just do not show that you are already so desperate that you invite work colleagues.

And then there are other lonely people: old, sick and otherwise rather avoided people are happy as you if someone sometimes deals with them.

So do not be afraid of "unpleasant" people. If you know them, they are often not so bad.

So do not make it harder for you than necessary.