Extremely affectionate?

Hay I know that this may be a pretty stupid question, but I have the feeling that not even my friends can really help me, which is why I wanted to ask online.

So I have been talking to a boy for about 1 month he added me to Snapchat and we started talking he is a friend of mine and said that he was really nice and interesting so I kept talking to him to mention it by the way I have never dated with a boy because I just know how exhausting it can be. I will be 20 this year and am a virgin but I have already done a lot with him in this one month and has now been around for 3-4 days he is totally cold to me I think that it could be because he really has to work for a week and is exhausted so I made a memo for him and said that I feel like a dog that runs after him, he just said that he was feels cramped and I put him under pressure when I always want an answer etc. But isn't that normal if he lets me read for over 2 hours? Or his best friend sleeps with him and doesn't even get an explanation except that she is probably extremely bad and I see how his snapscore keeps going up and how strange women follow him and back and I get scared that he is not just writing with me but also with others or someone else and get so sad again. I have often asked him if he really is serious about me and always got a "yes" but currently he doesn't let me feel it anymore. He is also in my Netflix account and I can see that he keeps looking even though he says he is going to sleep etc. In the past he really always replied directly as soon as I wrote. Do you think I'm just too clingy maybe because I'm a beginner or should I (as my friends say) really end it before he does or I get extremely hurt?

I'm sorry for my spelling, I just wrote on it

I have a punctuation mark spreader here. I think you need it more urgently.

Change your Netflix password, find another mother with handsome sons and choose one.

You are just friends and not a couple.

You shouldn't run after him. He doesn't seem to be interested in you anymore. He likes you, but instead of being honest, he goes on tour.

Talk to him openly and honestly and tell him what you think. But after a month of just chatting without meeting you can't talk about a relationship and you shouldn't press on friends. You also need time for yourself. That he adds others also shows that he no longer sees in you. Throw him out of Netflix and look for someone with whom you can really meet and get to know and see how real is. Purely online it is not so easy to judge someone if you fit. The chemistry must also be real.

We have already met and just went further, which means making out and becoming more intimate.

I just think he lost interest, you shouldn't run after a boy all the time. See for yourself, a friend is sleeping with him, although you've already made out, etc.

It is best to read it in peace, once he realizes how good you have been to him, sooner or later he will notice what he is missing. It was the same with me and my girlfriend and now we have been together for over 4 years.

Even if he doesn't answer, you at least know where you are with him.

Even if it will be difficult for you at first not to write him at first.

And there are enough guys who value you, not like this guy who has problems himself.

Precisely

So you have nothing better to do than expose the spelling of minors on the Internet? If you are really 78, you can only feel sorry for yourself. Seek help.

With minors on the Internet? You might want to seek help. Gives very good German courses.

What do you mean by "German courses"?

Yes, think about it. Before you criticize anyone, you should think twice.

I'm guessing that you mean minors? It is either "Year 78" or "Year 78".

I also think it's very nice that you want to feel sorry for me in this situation, since it is sometimes really difficult to read individual words if they are misspelled, despite autocorrection.

I would also like to thank the mods who delete suggestive comments.

I just think you're very lonely.

Not really.

Now I'm really sorry for the first time. Maybe you understand what I mean or suggest.

I can't change what you believe or not. That is far from my influence. But I can also continue to point out minor errors.

Everyone as he can and wants. I have other goals and needs.

I'm definitely not going to reveal my personal goals and needs here.

You are really very lonely. Take care.

Wow chill, that's not kindergarten, is it? You are an adult and have fallen in love with a boy, he has to work hard during the week and is bound to have several problems privately whether at home or whatever, you do not know if he still has psychological problems. I don't know if the word "empathy" says anything to you, but that means that you should put yourself in people's shoes, people understand what the next move is, I say. If you find him "pretty" and "interesting", then everything is great, he feels really overwhelmed (positive and negative stress) of everything, like work and you. If he already wrote / said "yes" to you, whatever, it is a confession of love to say that you fit together and that he loves you, but everything should be taken slowly. Be there for him, be calm and relaxed, ask what is going on and that you are sorry that you take him by surprise, I say. You don't need to popping or thinking about anything else, first of all make sure that you have a beginning in the relationship and in the evening, as it seems, it needs his rest or (because of Netflix) he probably can't sleep (maybe Sleep disorders?). If you want to be his girlfriend, take care of your boyfriend too, don't get excited and be honest with him. He probably also needs his freedom, which does not mean that he no longer loves you or anything else. Getting upset about the fact that he writes with other "women" shouldn't be a problem, I know such boys who forbid girls from writing to other boys. It is a no-go to forbid something like that, you feel constricted, I hope you are not like that.

I hope it will be something between you. ^^

Happy and good luck.

Do it better

Thank you, your comment has really calmed me down a bit.

Yes, trust me when he says "yes" and it is connected in this combination, that he loves you, etc. Then it is so. And do not restrict him so much, write him smileys, hearts and such, apologize for "spamming" him, but only if it really fits. You will come together. ^^

Don't answer him right away. Put your phone on mute and cook or bake something. Watch a movie or go and leave your cell phone at home!

I used to be like that too. But now I have better things to do than answer everyone immediately.

Maybe he has stress at work and then comes the best friend who has problems and tries to get everything under control. If he is really interested in you he will contact you and fight for you! But if you keep writing and sending voice messages, he'll feel even more restricted! Better not do that.

You definitely have to distract yourself a lot. Go out with your friends and let your hand out more often. Heartache is terrible.

unfortunately I had to experience it that way. It is also very difficult. But do you want to lose him forever?! I do not think so. So give him the time. In the end, he or you will need time in the relationship for some (be it the first time or something).