I'm w / 18 and very determined. I know what I want and I do everything for it.
That means I learn a lot and I take care of my body. So do sports, eat largely healthy food and have hobbies that fulfill me.
I often have the feeling that many of my age are a little lazy or do not have so many demands on themselves.
For example, not learning, not exercising, not cooking yourself. And have no real interests either. Does that mean you spend a lot of time on your cell phone or watch Netflix.
Training has to be done, but something was started with luck. If things don't go as planned, everything is simply thrown back.
Of course not all are like that. I live in a hot spot, that's probably why it's so extreme here, but why is it? How can such people be happy?
Who says these people are happy? XD
Right haha
Difficult to say. Some people are naturally discouraged, pessimistic, and have given up trying to shape their lives before it even starts. May be due to a bleak home, social injustice, a lousy environment…
Others just have different interests and you should be careful about rash judging people. Just because they aren't following your goals doesn't mean they don't have them. The valuation of the different life plans alone is problematic, because you quickly get to the point where you rise above others - I do that often enough myself.
But why should one. Continue training if it really doesn't suit you. You have to work for a few more decades xD that will really make you unhappy in the long run.
The parents bred their dropouts themselves. There's no such thing in the genes. Maybe you think you would have helped me better with the training search now you have me on my neck
Congratulations for your self-discipline and your organizational talent with which you structure your everyday life.
Many people want to have fun first and know exactly where the next party is going. In other words: For them, your reward system (happy when you have achieved something, come a little closer to your goal) is like the message from another universe.
It is also difficult to maintain your level of aspiration in the long term when you live in an environment that pulls you down. "You have no chance anyway" proclaim these bad prophets - but they are often experts in social welfare law.
On the other hand, you shouldn't get dogged in your determination; just because you've started something doesn't mean you have to continue something that contradicts your talent or your feelings. Stay open to other options and don't get stuck in your plan.
