I w14 had a date with my crush (m18) yesterday. The whole thing was very surprising because we had some difficulties beforehand (ee hated me because I was "too assi", "look 10/10 character 2/10" there's also something in my older questions).
Yesterday we had a date where we got pizza and then watched netflix from him. We cuddled and slept arm in arm and made out a bit but no sex.
We also talked about a relationship and he said that smoking, alcohol, etc. Is turned off and he is afraid that it rubs off on him.
Now he wants to meet me again tomorrow evening.
Do you think he is serious about me and it has a future or does he just want to take advantage of me? And should I meet him again tomorrow?
You said yourself that character is 2/10. In my opinion, cancel directly because you don't know if he will remain loyal to you in the future. Character> appearance
That's what he said
I would take it slow. Otherwise, meet with him again and talk about it. But wouldn't sleep with him directly if you were you.
I think he's serious. Otherwise he would not write to you that he is turning off your habits. In addition, when you are 14 you shouldn't take drugs, including alcohol, as your brain will then stop developing. So wait until 18:19.
I would look for someone else. The guy is just of legal age finds you "Assi" (your words) and is still dating you.
To be straightforward, I don't believe that who wants you, but honors your 10 out of 10 body. And that is really disgusting for an adult who takes advantage of the fact that you are still young and could not experience as much as he did in the four years you were missing.
Find someone who really likes you.
This is my tip
That's what he said about YOU… Great guy, right?
He did, but he drives a very different track than she does. He seems pretty sensible, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink, thinks it's Asian. The only question is why he is now violating his principles and still dating them. 🙄
Oh come on, I used to be such a young guy myself (at the age of 14 I would still never have let myself in) You talk a lot when you want someone to do the laundry. And then you like to play yourself as the great protector, especially because this girl probably has a difficult home when she already smokes, takes drugs and so on. Then you use the father complex of such a girl. Especially this statement is Assi but you have a great body, the guy is not sensible but "Schw * controlled" and highly manipulative
Might be.
Difficult! I say that as a man. Who wants a relationship more? You? He? What does this have to do with alcohol and smoking? Either he has a problem with it or he shouldn't. In the end, you have to know and deal with any disappointment.
Hmm, I think you misunderstand the facts…
With her 14 years she has more experience than the 18 year old.
She is 4 years younger, and more "experience" is nothing positive in this case…
It's good that your nickname is not penmanship 😂
This is not about "positive" or not. You write above as if the 14 year old had to protect herself from the 28 year old. On the other hand, it seems to me to be more realistic.
And she is definitely not "missing" 4 years! She's just 4 years younger than him, period!
And why shouldn't he like her? He just seems to be afraid that he is not up to the relationship because he seems to be scared that their bad habits rub off on him…
Ultimately, we don't even need to argue because 75% of this is fake anyway 😅
Well, it's hard for me to get out of my skin, I take care of young people of this age and my experience says that mostly the older one wants to take advantage of the situation… Of course, it can be fake, but something like that still exists and someone who is really looking for advice, then I want to read real answers, that's why I take everything seriously first, but I'm also against arguments, so have a nice day. ^^
