I'll meet up with a boy at his home soon. I had only suggested that we watch a movie, whereupon he immediately closed on Netflix etc. And not on the cinema, so the idea came from him. We've talked about our relationship before, and he said he's not sure, but does not rule it out. In addition, I thought that we can see what happens, which he agreed. Unfortunately I do not know how to take this meeting now. I know that I could just ask him, but I would like to hear your opinions. If it helps you: We're both 17 and have known each other for more than half a year. We also met several times before, so this is not our first meeting. Just ask if you have questions. (Incidentally, I'm not asking to get a clear answer here, I just want to know how people see that, who have nothing to do with me or with him to get honest and unaffected answers!)
I would appreciate that he does not look for something solid, but simply wants to have fun with a round of Netflix & Chill. On the one hand, I conclude this from his "maybe" behavior as well as the desire to see a film in his home. You now have to know if you feel like it or not.
He said he does not want to do that with me unless we're in a relationship. He does not want me to regret anything, so I doubt it.
Well, I did not know that. However, everyone says about the same thing; but what comes out after that is always different.
Well, he is really very polite and had a girlfriend so far, I really doubt he would do that. In addition, he looks very good, because he could get in any case, a ran, which is also interested in something, I think.
I just wanted you not to be completely surprised if something like that happened. Just go and find out what he really wants.
I've already thought such a thing, but he has never made the appearance just to be on something.
Your mistake!
YOU said "watch movie" and not "watch (cinema) movie GO".
So he assumed that you meant "telly".
I have said many times that I would like to see a movie, and by that I always mean cinema. But he always has it before as 'Netflix etc.' not me.
But "mine" does not mean that you have clarified it with words, as you mean.
He knows, however, that I meant it. We already know each other a bit and then I have often suggested watching a movie in the cinema. Always. And I said it the same way as this time.
In addition, he has often tried to watch a movie with me at his home.
That's not true. I have to know it well. I was maybe there.
Oh right… I forgot, sorry.
Ofhalima,
I have now really 5 attempts to write it correctly.
If he really says… "Maybe", then I would shoot him down.
I hope you are too sorry for that.
You should never be a second choice.
You do not need that.
