I'll be 15 in 2 weeks and would really like to party or at least do something with friends, but that's where my problem lies: I do not have any friends right now. In my class are quite a few people who are quite nice but more than superficial contact I have there to anyone anymore. I used to be friends with a lot of them, but for my former "friends" I was always just a stopgap. I'm not going to be marginalized now or so with so wrong people, to whom I mean nothing anyway and only good, when no one else is there, I do not want to give myself up and have therefore withdrawn from them. I'm actually a very social person and need social contact, but first I have to build a new environment. On my birthday I do not want to squat alone and sink in self-pity. Last year, my sister surprised me with a spontaneous trip and then a nice movie night, which was very nice. She even said she planned something again this year, which is very nice of her, but that probably broke up again, but I do not want to expect her to plan something for me every year now, and moreover I would also like to do something with peers except my family, if I had any. Does anyone have any idea how to spend my birthday nicely? And please not something like going out to eat with family or coffee with grandma and grandpa, because this is too depressing for me, because I prefer to just watch netflix. I do not have a good relationship with my relatives and besides, we make this coffee thing on the weekend after, as my brother turns 18 two days after me.
So I do not know if that is with you too. With me in the city is again for a few weeks the Plärrer there. (so ne art fair with different roller coasters, ghost train etc.). If that's fun, go with your sister.
Or is there something similar that you like to do? Or go swimming in a thermal bath and in the evening in the cinema?
Hope could help. And with no friends I know myself too
"since my brother turns 18 two days after me."
if you are already 18 years then ask in the class who wants to drink something with you in the afternoon / after school.
(If the first round is up to you, everyone is your friend. And then it's talked about and then people come to you who were not there.)
If the answers are rather poor then join the group of your brother and celebrate with them, if you may (does not matter when you celebrate his birth)
If I misunderstood that with the 18:
Then talk to your neighbor who is sure to have often needed something from you or vice versa that means you already know each other and look that you tie with the one closer contact.
Hm, that you see yourself as a stopgap, when you are with your "friends" together, is of course not nice. But maybe there were only a few misunderstandings.
It's very positive that your sister cares so much about it at all. After all, not everyone has such a good sister. So I would just get involved, but at the same time do not expect too much, as you said before.
If you understand the guys in your class reasonably well, or if you have a reasonable contact with them, then you can ask a few of them, or one of them, if they would like to have something with you on your birthday close. Or you invite her to a pizza ect. On. Maybe that makes the contact between you even better and you have more "won": D
