I'm 18 and my talent is consciously looking for contact with people who do not suit me at all and then badly talking to all of humanity. For example, I'm looking for a friend my age because I'm afraid I'm not mature enough and interesting enough for older men. The problem is, however, that I have a character that does not fit into the framework of typical 18-year-old "men". For example, I don't go out partying because I don't feel comfortable in crowds, the music is too loud for me and I don't like alcohol. Smoking shisha or smoking in general is not mine either. You can't even watch Netflix or movies in general with me because I'm more of a book type and prefers to read. I can't do anything with Smalltalk either, I prefer to have in-depth discussions.
As I said, I like to read, I like to travel, I like to go shopping. That's it. But I could imagine going to the theater, the museum or a musical. Something like that would be mine.
There are men my age who are like me, but these are real nerds who confess their love to me after 2 hours. And I don't want to be adored, I want to be given contraindications.
Do you think I would be happier with an older man? I also find older men visually attractive.
I think that would be something for you as long as you are not looking for an old man. If you yourself are more mature than the guys in your old age are looking for a man who is 5-6 years older, but if there's no one then even older. You have to feel comfortable and happy with it. What you don't seem to achieve with guys your age. You find older men more attractive anyway, so that will be right for you.
I do not know. But I find it generally nonsense to choose a certain age group as a target.
What do you have against nerds?
It's not a question of age…
Of course, it could be a good thing that a man who broadcasts on your wave is a little older.
Also because women are generally more mature than men.
So it is not uncommon that you have the maturity of a mid 20s man.
But LOVE has to grow.
Of course, this is also about interests - but why shouldn't there be 19-22 year old guys with depth who neither smoke nor drink?
Finding yourself is the problem.
But please, if he should be older, I'm single * wink * …
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Everyone has their desires for life and inclinations that can lead to a happy relationship. Everyone is different, nobody is the same.
If you can be so happy and then imagine a life together with your partner, then you should only do so.
Nothing worse than messing up life for some social nook.
What exactly are "older men" for you?
I personally have nothing against a few years, but if you are still at school at 18, having a partner who has been out of university for several years or works for several years is just weird. He has different wishes and problems than you and can still get drunk just as much as anyone your age. It doesn't necessarily have to do with personality, sometimes the living conditions are just too different.
I personally am a "nerd" about your age, but you should revise your picture of us a little. Of course it is not particularly convincing to confess love after 2 hours, but according to your text you also seem pretty nerdy to me. You will probably call it a class, but you may be alone by now. Even in older men.
So be aware that there are also people your age who don't go out celebrating every day or who confess their love after 2 hours. Of course, these are a bit "different", but that's exactly what you're asking for.
I personally feel insulted in my nerve
"Also because women are generally more mature than men."
That was good.
Thanks xD
