My boyfriend actually wanted to go fishing after work. But then decided to stay at home. I've had it a few times now, that I'm completely annoyed and it annoys me when he changes his mind. In addition, I always go to the bedroom to either doze off or sleep there. Because, for example, I don't feel like watching Netflix etc. And sometimes find it nice when nothing is going on. He's actually on Mondays from time to time and then doesn't come home for a week. So can it be because I'm just not used to the fact that he is at home now because of the Christmas season?
If you don't feel joy in having your friend around, ask yourself what you want to achieve in the long term. Are you your life partner or is your relationship intended for the long term? Do you want children from him? Answer these questions, make the necessary decisions and act. Otherwise you will oversleep a time that can't be repeated.
We have been together for almost 8 years. I'm someone who attaches great importance to freedom. So, sometimes moments that I only have to myself. And if he says he's going away, then I'll take up something, e.g. Gamble or something. U d no, neither of us want children.
You have to distinguish what exactly upsets you. That your friend makes an announcement and then doesn't stick with it? Or that he's more at home and you don't like his increased presence?
Some people find it difficult to choose. In the morning they take on something, but then don't feel like it anymore. They let it stay… You have to accept that, even if you think very differently. As long as it only concerns your friend and not a joint venture, leave it alone. Be sure, he knows his problem and sometimes suffers from it…
But if the second thing is that you don't know what to do with him or that you feel disturbed when he's around, then something is wrong with your relationship. If you want to get involved with this man, you have to tolerate his whims and peculiarities. If you can't or don't want to, he's not the right one for you.
